Little Clinton & George Fund
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This is the story of two amazing and extremely resilient little boys who, despite coming from a tragic beginning, are Thriving, Shining and Glowing! We just need a bit of your help to keep it going...
Background: After 15+ years as a Trauma Therapist, and work with programs in the USA, India, Tanzania and Ethiopia, I decided to move to Kenya to establish programs for war trauma and torture amongst refugees. In November 2013, I decided to leave my full time employment (along with any stable income) to start the Global Trauma Project (GTP) in order to support more people (regardless of income or location) in healing from the detrimental impacts of trauma (abuse, violence, war, etc.) and to realize their full potential.
Well... I thought that leaving my country, empolyment, income, and security would pose the biggest changes and challenges of my life. Little did I know that things were about to change even more. During the 2013 Christmas break, I was visiting a friend in Masaai Mara, Kenya. During my visit, we visited a children's home that I had been to several times to see how the children were doing. I was particularly concerned about a small baby named Clinton, who had been so sick the last time I was there in October, that we were all worried that he may die. He could barely stand, couldn't move or speak, and his eyes rolled back up into his skull.
After taking him to the local doctor's clinic, I still wasn't sure that he would make it. The home was in extremely bad condition, with 2 small rooms, 1 caregiver for 20 children (who cooked over charcoal, hand washed all laundry, etc.) No electricity, very little food, no mattresses, and all 20 children (ages 1-8) sleeping together on a cement floor in the cold. Flu, respiratory problems, and malnourishment were the norm.
(George and Clinton are 3rd and 4th in the back row.)
By December, Clinton was moving around a bit, but still very sick and weak. The director of the home asked if I may be willing to take Clinton to Nairobi over the holiday break, for medical treatment and medication. She then asked if I would also consider taking another boy, George, who was also among the most ill. I was told that George was HIV+ and that Clinton was likely so as well. Both boys only spoke Kiswahili and zero English, and I was quite hesitant to take them for treatment, as I didn't know how I would manage on my own. I called a friend from my yoga class, Alex, who is an amazingly sweet and caring Kenyan man, and asked if he would have any interest in coming over to help me with the children over the break. He said "Yes- absolutely- bring them!" And so I set off with Clinton and George on the 3 hour Matatu ride back to Nairobi. They didn't move or make a sound that entire trip.
(This was Clinton's permanent expression. No smiles, crying, talking or expression except for this.)
During the next few weeks, we learned that both boys were HIV negative, and had no major diseases. They were very sick simply from severe malnourishment, neglect, and parasites/ bacterial infections/ etc. They were on 13 different medications to begin with, were very weak, couldn't lift themselves onto a chair, sweat profusely, and went poo-poo every 10 minutes. 90% of Alex's and my conversations were about poo-poo for the first month. The kids couldn't understand a word I said, I couldn't understand them, and we had to learn how to interpret certain behaviors- ie, that putting on their shoes really meant that they needed to go to the potty. Needless to say, it was an incredible- and exhausting- month.
With time, we came to learn that the owner of the children's home was using the horrible state of the children to obtain sympathy and money from tourists. After visiting the local county child welfare office, and asking what we should do with the boys, we were told that the home was being closed down due to abuse and neglect, and asked if we would be willing to continue being the caregivers for Clinton and George. The staff of the home had disappeared, and Child Welfare did not know the whereabouts of the other 18 children. As a Kenyan, Alex was granted temporary legal custody. We are posting this page with the blessings of the county child welfare office, who have been very supportive and behind us in caring for the boys.
We were told that if no relatives came forward to claim the boys, that they would be freed for adoption after 6 months (3 months remaining.) Alex is a wonderful friend and role model to the boys, but young and just starting an adult life of his own. I have known for a long time that I would one day adopt children, but this was totally unexpected and the timing was really not good, given that I had no income and was trying to start a new organization. Nonetheless, I realized that clearly god’s plan is more in charge than mine, and I decided that I would completely commit myself to the boys’ wellbeing, and work towards giving them a loving family to be a part of.
Thus has begun a long and complicated journey… and also a greatest journey of a lifetime. The boys have been thriving! They literally doubled in size in the first 5 months (Clinton growing from 8 Kgs- 15kgs.) Shoes that were too big one day, literally did not even fit onto their feet 1 week later. I’m not a nurse, so haven't had experience with this before. I realized I needed a nanny fast, and as they began to blossom, I realized that they also were actually ready to begin pre-school. Their ages are unknown, with no birthdates or certificates, but we were told they were around age 2 and 3.
Background: After 15+ years as a Trauma Therapist, and work with programs in the USA, India, Tanzania and Ethiopia, I decided to move to Kenya to establish programs for war trauma and torture amongst refugees. In November 2013, I decided to leave my full time employment (along with any stable income) to start the Global Trauma Project (GTP) in order to support more people (regardless of income or location) in healing from the detrimental impacts of trauma (abuse, violence, war, etc.) and to realize their full potential.
Well... I thought that leaving my country, empolyment, income, and security would pose the biggest changes and challenges of my life. Little did I know that things were about to change even more. During the 2013 Christmas break, I was visiting a friend in Masaai Mara, Kenya. During my visit, we visited a children's home that I had been to several times to see how the children were doing. I was particularly concerned about a small baby named Clinton, who had been so sick the last time I was there in October, that we were all worried that he may die. He could barely stand, couldn't move or speak, and his eyes rolled back up into his skull.
After taking him to the local doctor's clinic, I still wasn't sure that he would make it. The home was in extremely bad condition, with 2 small rooms, 1 caregiver for 20 children (who cooked over charcoal, hand washed all laundry, etc.) No electricity, very little food, no mattresses, and all 20 children (ages 1-8) sleeping together on a cement floor in the cold. Flu, respiratory problems, and malnourishment were the norm.
(George and Clinton are 3rd and 4th in the back row.)
By December, Clinton was moving around a bit, but still very sick and weak. The director of the home asked if I may be willing to take Clinton to Nairobi over the holiday break, for medical treatment and medication. She then asked if I would also consider taking another boy, George, who was also among the most ill. I was told that George was HIV+ and that Clinton was likely so as well. Both boys only spoke Kiswahili and zero English, and I was quite hesitant to take them for treatment, as I didn't know how I would manage on my own. I called a friend from my yoga class, Alex, who is an amazingly sweet and caring Kenyan man, and asked if he would have any interest in coming over to help me with the children over the break. He said "Yes- absolutely- bring them!" And so I set off with Clinton and George on the 3 hour Matatu ride back to Nairobi. They didn't move or make a sound that entire trip.
(This was Clinton's permanent expression. No smiles, crying, talking or expression except for this.)
During the next few weeks, we learned that both boys were HIV negative, and had no major diseases. They were very sick simply from severe malnourishment, neglect, and parasites/ bacterial infections/ etc. They were on 13 different medications to begin with, were very weak, couldn't lift themselves onto a chair, sweat profusely, and went poo-poo every 10 minutes. 90% of Alex's and my conversations were about poo-poo for the first month. The kids couldn't understand a word I said, I couldn't understand them, and we had to learn how to interpret certain behaviors- ie, that putting on their shoes really meant that they needed to go to the potty. Needless to say, it was an incredible- and exhausting- month.
With time, we came to learn that the owner of the children's home was using the horrible state of the children to obtain sympathy and money from tourists. After visiting the local county child welfare office, and asking what we should do with the boys, we were told that the home was being closed down due to abuse and neglect, and asked if we would be willing to continue being the caregivers for Clinton and George. The staff of the home had disappeared, and Child Welfare did not know the whereabouts of the other 18 children. As a Kenyan, Alex was granted temporary legal custody. We are posting this page with the blessings of the county child welfare office, who have been very supportive and behind us in caring for the boys.
We were told that if no relatives came forward to claim the boys, that they would be freed for adoption after 6 months (3 months remaining.) Alex is a wonderful friend and role model to the boys, but young and just starting an adult life of his own. I have known for a long time that I would one day adopt children, but this was totally unexpected and the timing was really not good, given that I had no income and was trying to start a new organization. Nonetheless, I realized that clearly god’s plan is more in charge than mine, and I decided that I would completely commit myself to the boys’ wellbeing, and work towards giving them a loving family to be a part of.
Thus has begun a long and complicated journey… and also a greatest journey of a lifetime. The boys have been thriving! They literally doubled in size in the first 5 months (Clinton growing from 8 Kgs- 15kgs.) Shoes that were too big one day, literally did not even fit onto their feet 1 week later. I’m not a nurse, so haven't had experience with this before. I realized I needed a nanny fast, and as they began to blossom, I realized that they also were actually ready to begin pre-school. Their ages are unknown, with no birthdates or certificates, but we were told they were around age 2 and 3.
Originally, Clinton was completely shut down. A flattened affect with no smile, no crying, no expression at all except for a painfully void look on his face at all times. George spoke for Clinton, fed him, wiped him and took him to toilet. Clinton expressed no feelings or needs of any kind. After only a few weeks, Clinton's little spirit already began to break out. He started by speaking in a whisper, and now has a big singing voice and Shines with brightness and joy. Funny enough, his first true excitement became Yoga, and he would come into my bedroom, asked to be lifted onto the bed, and then try to jump up and down squealing "Yoga! Yoga! Nakupenda yoga!! Twende yoga!" (I Love yoga! Let's go to yoga!)
(Alex, George, Clinton and I practicing our "down dog.")
George “3” was kept out of school because he was too small. It soon became clear that George is at least 4.5 years old, and bright as a whip. He knows all his letters, colors, and numbers and is ready to start reading. He can do puzzles for ages 6-8 years, has a super adventurous spirit, and is always ready to try anything new with all is heart. All of this was just hidden away inside a tiny little shell, waiting to emerge. After just two months of eating, pooing and love, the boys were already transforming and started school...
Language was a Huge challenge in the beginning, but the child-brain is truly AMAZING- and the boys have learned an Entire second language "Kizungu" (English) in 5 months! They are now completely bi-lingual, and I am a bit jealous of them. :/
Schools in Kenya are quite expensive… another “big news” to the girl from Iowa- ie."land of free schooling." Medical care, school transport, legal fees for the adoption/ court process… have all become very challenging in light of still trying to start a new mental health organization.
All of this brings us to the final point: We need your help.
I was just notified by the Kenyan Government that I have been granted a 2-year work permit. This is great news, because the new administration has been deporting many people and not granting work permits. I need this permit not only for work, but for the adoption process, a work permit is required to show that I will legally be in the country long-term. Once I have the permit, I will be able to petition the court for legal foster-parenthood of both boys, and after 1 year I will again petition the court for adoption under special circumstances.
I cannot do this alone. I have needed the help of Alex, our nanny Helen, the boys’ school, and many others to make this happen. And now, I need help from you. I don't often ask for help- it’s Very Uncomfortable for me to do so. (I have had anxiety and tears at the thought of posting this page.) But one thing I have been learning these last few years, is that we are not in this world alone, and that we all need each other. Sometimes, I guess it's my turn to reach out. So here goes.
Any help or support you may offer is GREATLY Appreciated by all of us. This may include not only money, but also your comments, posts and encouragement. It helps us each and every day and I often read your facebook comments to the boys, who feel that they have friends all over the world. It warms our hearts!
We also welcome you to Kenya at any time- George and Clinton love making new friends from all different countries (and would love to tell you all they know about where you are from lol), and we can provide some of the best guidance on helping you create a trip of a lifetime!
Our Biggest Love, Thanks and Appreciation to you all! Asante Sana!! <3
(If anyone is kind to donate from Kenya, contributions may be sent via mpesa to: 0715081803. Asante Sana!)
(Alex, George, Clinton and I practicing our "down dog.")
George “3” was kept out of school because he was too small. It soon became clear that George is at least 4.5 years old, and bright as a whip. He knows all his letters, colors, and numbers and is ready to start reading. He can do puzzles for ages 6-8 years, has a super adventurous spirit, and is always ready to try anything new with all is heart. All of this was just hidden away inside a tiny little shell, waiting to emerge. After just two months of eating, pooing and love, the boys were already transforming and started school...
Language was a Huge challenge in the beginning, but the child-brain is truly AMAZING- and the boys have learned an Entire second language "Kizungu" (English) in 5 months! They are now completely bi-lingual, and I am a bit jealous of them. :/
Schools in Kenya are quite expensive… another “big news” to the girl from Iowa- ie."land of free schooling." Medical care, school transport, legal fees for the adoption/ court process… have all become very challenging in light of still trying to start a new mental health organization.
All of this brings us to the final point: We need your help.
I was just notified by the Kenyan Government that I have been granted a 2-year work permit. This is great news, because the new administration has been deporting many people and not granting work permits. I need this permit not only for work, but for the adoption process, a work permit is required to show that I will legally be in the country long-term. Once I have the permit, I will be able to petition the court for legal foster-parenthood of both boys, and after 1 year I will again petition the court for adoption under special circumstances.
I cannot do this alone. I have needed the help of Alex, our nanny Helen, the boys’ school, and many others to make this happen. And now, I need help from you. I don't often ask for help- it’s Very Uncomfortable for me to do so. (I have had anxiety and tears at the thought of posting this page.) But one thing I have been learning these last few years, is that we are not in this world alone, and that we all need each other. Sometimes, I guess it's my turn to reach out. So here goes.
Any help or support you may offer is GREATLY Appreciated by all of us. This may include not only money, but also your comments, posts and encouragement. It helps us each and every day and I often read your facebook comments to the boys, who feel that they have friends all over the world. It warms our hearts!
We also welcome you to Kenya at any time- George and Clinton love making new friends from all different countries (and would love to tell you all they know about where you are from lol), and we can provide some of the best guidance on helping you create a trip of a lifetime!
Our Biggest Love, Thanks and Appreciation to you all! Asante Sana!! <3
(If anyone is kind to donate from Kenya, contributions may be sent via mpesa to: 0715081803. Asante Sana!)
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Ilya Yacevich
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Lowell, MA