Cancer..again..Single Mom of a Special Needs kid.
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LATEST UPDATE AS OF:
OCTOBER 3, 2022
PLEASE REREAD POST!!! THANKS!!
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PLEASE REMEMBER TO:
( ! ) Share, Share, Share this GoFundMe link! The more eyes on this the more helpful it can be in meeting the goal amount and or making connections!
( ! ) Donate as you can— ANYTHING helps! Even just $5 a person— it adds up and makes a difference! Cashapp and Zelle available too just message me!
So now this GoFundMe can be truly focused on what it needs to be about— which is meeting the goal to help cover some of the costs of the cancer treatments and or surgeries.
Back History For Those Not Up To Speed: I had to have my tubes fully removed and one ovary due to pregnancy complications. I’ve had 5 pregnancies and have 1 living child. I medically had Endometriosis and PCOS-aka Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome… as well a more rare blood type (Rh- O-) along with blood issues such as factor 5 and factor 7 blood clotting deficiencies. At this point, I was then diagnosed with Uterine Cancer and chose to have surgery to remove it, my first option. My person meant to help with childcare bailed on me the day of the surgery. Felt lucky to have it rescheduled for two weeks later which was a couple days before Christmas. Those two weeks sadly ended up costing me my remaining ovary, as the cancer was fast spreading and over took the ovary just within the two week difference. So I had a full hysterectomy… removing what was covered in cancer and what remained of my reproductive system from prior surgeries which was my uterus, cervix, and the ovary we tried to save. The surgery was a success and scans came back all clear after the surgery. I was very fortunate it hadn’t spread more than it had and that I could manage the cancer at that time with surgery and no radiation or chemotherapy.
Current Health And Cancer Situation: At my two year scans they informed me I was no longer in remission and that the cancer had been found in my kidney and my liver. I have sense moved to Cartersville where I am more day to day help with Parker and overall support. I am unable to work a traditional job due to the health risks it posses when exposed to anyone and everyone. I’ve had Covid three times and each times I’ve had me out of “commission” for a month and half at least. The second time I got it it was in my system testing positive for over 45 days. Covid along with the flu and basic colds maybe a joke or birthing to most but to me it has already costed me so much time being sick and being unable to fight the cancer head on like I’d want to.
Current Financial Burden: is the Gas/Parking, Medications, Copays, Scans/Imaging, Three different surgeries that have been proposed which rage from $3,000-$10,000 individually. Radiation.
I maybe a random person asking for help but my life is worth it. So many years I didn’t care if I lived or died.. I even wanted to die at times… but at this day and moment in my life all I want to do is live.. I want a fighting chance at a life that I’m finally in love with… I want to be here for my son and for his life for as long as I can. I want him to not know the pain of losing his only mother. I’ve learned since moving back in with my mom that I need her— even at the age of 27…being a parent doesn’t end when they turn 18. As I’ve needed mine, I know he’ll need his…moms are irreplaceable. I want to live for me. I want to live for him. I want to kick cancers ass as I have done once before. I can do this. I will do this. I just need some financial help to do so since this go around I’m on a different insurance and don’t have a secondary insurance as I had last go around. Please help me pay what insurance will not. Help give me the chance to be the mom who stays for her child. There’s too much for me to put on here publicly but my son has already gone through so much hurt and loss in his lifetime— as have i. So if not donate for me, donate for my five-year-old boy he doesn’t have a say in the matter, so that he doesn’t have to know life without me, his mom.
NOTE FOR PREVIOUS READERS:
As you know I made this GoFundMe originally to help fund Parker’s Gaming setup (as a way to distract him from my cancer). Once we were at about $400 in donations a Company agreed to buy the equipment necessary for Parker to have his set up and to make that request a possibility so for that here’s a Thank You shout out to America’s Realty Atlanta Inc.
Thank you for reading!
If you can’t donate— please, share!
Sincerely, An appreciative mother reaching out to “the village” because I can’t do this alone..
Jamie Sarah Fleischer
$itsparkersmom
[email redacted]
770-658-8195
OCTOBER 3, 2022
PLEASE REREAD POST!!! THANKS!!
________________________________
PLEASE REMEMBER TO:
( ! ) Share, Share, Share this GoFundMe link! The more eyes on this the more helpful it can be in meeting the goal amount and or making connections!
( ! ) Donate as you can— ANYTHING helps! Even just $5 a person— it adds up and makes a difference! Cashapp and Zelle available too just message me!
So now this GoFundMe can be truly focused on what it needs to be about— which is meeting the goal to help cover some of the costs of the cancer treatments and or surgeries.
Back History For Those Not Up To Speed: I had to have my tubes fully removed and one ovary due to pregnancy complications. I’ve had 5 pregnancies and have 1 living child. I medically had Endometriosis and PCOS-aka Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome… as well a more rare blood type (Rh- O-) along with blood issues such as factor 5 and factor 7 blood clotting deficiencies. At this point, I was then diagnosed with Uterine Cancer and chose to have surgery to remove it, my first option. My person meant to help with childcare bailed on me the day of the surgery. Felt lucky to have it rescheduled for two weeks later which was a couple days before Christmas. Those two weeks sadly ended up costing me my remaining ovary, as the cancer was fast spreading and over took the ovary just within the two week difference. So I had a full hysterectomy… removing what was covered in cancer and what remained of my reproductive system from prior surgeries which was my uterus, cervix, and the ovary we tried to save. The surgery was a success and scans came back all clear after the surgery. I was very fortunate it hadn’t spread more than it had and that I could manage the cancer at that time with surgery and no radiation or chemotherapy.
Current Health And Cancer Situation: At my two year scans they informed me I was no longer in remission and that the cancer had been found in my kidney and my liver. I have sense moved to Cartersville where I am more day to day help with Parker and overall support. I am unable to work a traditional job due to the health risks it posses when exposed to anyone and everyone. I’ve had Covid three times and each times I’ve had me out of “commission” for a month and half at least. The second time I got it it was in my system testing positive for over 45 days. Covid along with the flu and basic colds maybe a joke or birthing to most but to me it has already costed me so much time being sick and being unable to fight the cancer head on like I’d want to.
Current Financial Burden: is the Gas/Parking, Medications, Copays, Scans/Imaging, Three different surgeries that have been proposed which rage from $3,000-$10,000 individually. Radiation.
I maybe a random person asking for help but my life is worth it. So many years I didn’t care if I lived or died.. I even wanted to die at times… but at this day and moment in my life all I want to do is live.. I want a fighting chance at a life that I’m finally in love with… I want to be here for my son and for his life for as long as I can. I want him to not know the pain of losing his only mother. I’ve learned since moving back in with my mom that I need her— even at the age of 27…being a parent doesn’t end when they turn 18. As I’ve needed mine, I know he’ll need his…moms are irreplaceable. I want to live for me. I want to live for him. I want to kick cancers ass as I have done once before. I can do this. I will do this. I just need some financial help to do so since this go around I’m on a different insurance and don’t have a secondary insurance as I had last go around. Please help me pay what insurance will not. Help give me the chance to be the mom who stays for her child. There’s too much for me to put on here publicly but my son has already gone through so much hurt and loss in his lifetime— as have i. So if not donate for me, donate for my five-year-old boy he doesn’t have a say in the matter, so that he doesn’t have to know life without me, his mom.
NOTE FOR PREVIOUS READERS:
As you know I made this GoFundMe originally to help fund Parker’s Gaming setup (as a way to distract him from my cancer). Once we were at about $400 in donations a Company agreed to buy the equipment necessary for Parker to have his set up and to make that request a possibility so for that here’s a Thank You shout out to America’s Realty Atlanta Inc.
Thank you for reading!
If you can’t donate— please, share!
Sincerely, An appreciative mother reaching out to “the village” because I can’t do this alone..
Jamie Sarah Fleischer
$itsparkersmom
[email redacted]
770-658-8195
Organizer
Sarah Fleischer
Organizer
Cartersville, GA