In memory of Melissa Chitty

My twin sister, Melissa, died on Saturday, November 26, from a stroke related to a car accident she was recently involved in. We, including her 9-year-old daughter, are devastated by the unexpected loss. It will take a long time to grieve and rebuild a new life with Melissa's daughter in my care.

I wish I could write all of the details and all of the things in my heart at the moment. There is so much grief and sadness, and also anxiety about the future as the landscape of Jasmine's life has changed so drastically in one moment and is continuing to evolve as we navigate this life.

What comforts me is knowing that Melissa is no longer in pain. Her spirit is free from the pain her earthly body gave her. What comforts me is knowing that Melissa's daughter and myself are surrounded by incredible love and support, knowing that we are in the palm of Gd's hand. He is Jehovah Jireh, the Gd that provides.

I am asking friends and family for donations to meet our need to provide for Melissa's funeral arrangements and Jasmine's care during this time. We are anticipating that Jasmine's medical coverage and childcare costs will end within the month. There also other costs associated with the legal adoption process and many other unknown costs that pop up daily.

Many of those that know me, know how hard it is for me to ask for any help, especially financial help. But I know how much Melissa would love to see people she knew show up for her. Her wishes, which we were fortunate to discuss in the last year leading up to her death, are what drive me. Giving her daughter the funeral she needs in order to honor her mom is what pushes me to make the request. Making sure Jasmine knows that all of her needs will be met and she knows exactly where she will live and who will take care of her is what she needs right now.

Honestly, I'm incredibly drained. I would love to make this request interesting or use a bunch of flowery language, but I just don't have the energu. So I'm simply asking for help so we can honor Melissa in a respectful way and help her daughter transition into a new life. Thank you in advance.