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Ukraine is Good Enough: Help our Humanitarian Aid
I’m a Ukrainian American woman who has resented her identity as a Ukrainian – a “Uke” – for most of my life. I didn’t feel welcomed by Ukrainian Americans as I continued to speak English rather than Ukrainian. Feeling unwelcome and deciding to dismiss myself before others got the chance, I dropped out of the Ukrainian grade school, Ukrainian church, Ukrainian dance ensemble, Ukrainian soccer team, Ukrainian ski club, Ukrainian scouting organization, Ukrainian Saturday school. You get it.
We all feel insecure about something. Language is a big reason to feel belonging or alienation (I’m reading a book about this) but, of course, insecurities take endless forms. In Silicon Valley, I’ve built a tribe of high-performing women who talk about our personal insecurities and perennial imposter syndrome. Through the pandemic era, I’ve related to the broader communities facing insecurity – from the Black Lives Matter protesters to the Asians and Pacific Islanders facing violence to the MAGA-supporting Midwesterners struggling for work. Movements – for the better or worse – happen when communities are tired of being told they just. Aren’t. Good. Enough.
Ukraine is good enough. This is why you should be paying attention to what’s happening there at this moment in history. If you’ve ever felt alienated or like you don’t belong, then you empathize with the gaslighting that Ukraine has received from Russian authorities (et al.) for centuries. It is within Ukrainians’ core experience to be told that our motherland is just not good enough for democracy and sovereignty.
It’s common for young Ukrainians, myself included, to read and recite poetry by Taras Shevchenko, a 19th Century Ukrainian serf who wrote about the Ukrainian struggle against Russia. Before my grandfather died, he used to sit and recite Shevchenko poetry with me in Ukrainian. In unison, we recited prose about the glorious Dnipro River and the dream to break free from the chains.
You imagine being told your entire life you’re not good enough to run your own home. That mindset breeds insecurity and fear. I’m tired of resenting my identity for that baggage.
Instead, I’m opting for unity with Ukrainians. Unity with Ukraine to insist: the country is good enough.
Please join me in donating to the Ukrainian Congress Committee of America to aid Ukrainians facing insecurity today. All aid will be coordinated with the UUARC, World Congress of Ukrainians, UCCA, USAID, and other country efforts for Ukraine.
Income will be reported in Bulk numbers (not by individual donors). All distributed aid will be reported on UUARC’s website: https://www.uuarc.org/
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