"Conscious Love" Self Publishing
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Thank you for supporting the completion of the "Conscious Love" book project!
All funds raised through gofundme will be used for self publishing, book website creation, and book marketing.
This book is about shedding light on the unconscious aspects of human relationships, by looking at things differently, and by asking effective questions in the right way.
Although the book is mainly geared toward romantic partnership, everything can also be used to deepen relationships with friends or family members as well.
The chapters of this book cover many different dynamics of human relationship, including the various types of attraction we can feel toward another, the many types of love which exist, techniques to assess 13 different types of maturity in ones self, as well as in ones partner, diving deeply into what triggers us, creating a safe space for sharing difficult feelings, and exercises to illuminate the unspoken aspects of the relationship to become a better partner and/or friend.
Below is a sneak peak of one of the exercises that I shared online about a year ago, and have continued to receive emails about every week since.
"Questions for a healthy relationship: (To be asked by both partners, in a calm and loving tone, bi-weekly or monthly)
1) How can I best support and empower you in your growth and healing right now?
2) Is there anything that you have been wanting to say to me, but haven't been able to?
3) Are there any negative emotions or resentments building up in you, from any part of our relationship?
4) Do you feel like your needs are being met in our relationship?
5) Which aspects of our relationship are you most grateful for?
6) Do you feel heard by me?
7) Do you feel seen by me?
8) Do you feel understood by me?
9) Do you feel loved and accepted by me?
10) What can I do, on a regular basis, to be a better partner?
11) What is the best way we can make our relationship even stronger?
12) How can we increase, deepen, and strengthen our loving connection?
13) What fun activity or adventure would you like to do together this month?
14) What act of service for others would you like to do together this month?
15) What do you feel our biggest challenges were, in this past month, and what ideas do you have for over coming similar challenges in the future?
16) What do you feel our greatest successes were, in this past month, and how can we create more successes like that in the months & years to come?
17) Does our relationship feel balanced and healthy?
18) Is there anything else you would like to ask, or say, or have me say to you?
19) Are there any other questions that we should be asking each other?"
If you feel this book will be a helpful tool in deepening and strengthening the bond between friends, family, and romantic partners--please support this book project :)
Much gratitude, appreciation, and thanks to all who have assisted in the birthing of this book!
Every Blessing,
Daniel
All funds raised through gofundme will be used for self publishing, book website creation, and book marketing.
This book is about shedding light on the unconscious aspects of human relationships, by looking at things differently, and by asking effective questions in the right way.
Although the book is mainly geared toward romantic partnership, everything can also be used to deepen relationships with friends or family members as well.
The chapters of this book cover many different dynamics of human relationship, including the various types of attraction we can feel toward another, the many types of love which exist, techniques to assess 13 different types of maturity in ones self, as well as in ones partner, diving deeply into what triggers us, creating a safe space for sharing difficult feelings, and exercises to illuminate the unspoken aspects of the relationship to become a better partner and/or friend.
Below is a sneak peak of one of the exercises that I shared online about a year ago, and have continued to receive emails about every week since.
"Questions for a healthy relationship: (To be asked by both partners, in a calm and loving tone, bi-weekly or monthly)
1) How can I best support and empower you in your growth and healing right now?
2) Is there anything that you have been wanting to say to me, but haven't been able to?
3) Are there any negative emotions or resentments building up in you, from any part of our relationship?
4) Do you feel like your needs are being met in our relationship?
5) Which aspects of our relationship are you most grateful for?
6) Do you feel heard by me?
7) Do you feel seen by me?
8) Do you feel understood by me?
9) Do you feel loved and accepted by me?
10) What can I do, on a regular basis, to be a better partner?
11) What is the best way we can make our relationship even stronger?
12) How can we increase, deepen, and strengthen our loving connection?
13) What fun activity or adventure would you like to do together this month?
14) What act of service for others would you like to do together this month?
15) What do you feel our biggest challenges were, in this past month, and what ideas do you have for over coming similar challenges in the future?
16) What do you feel our greatest successes were, in this past month, and how can we create more successes like that in the months & years to come?
17) Does our relationship feel balanced and healthy?
18) Is there anything else you would like to ask, or say, or have me say to you?
19) Are there any other questions that we should be asking each other?"
If you feel this book will be a helpful tool in deepening and strengthening the bond between friends, family, and romantic partners--please support this book project :)
Much gratitude, appreciation, and thanks to all who have assisted in the birthing of this book!
Every Blessing,
Daniel
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Daniel Hermes Sushumna
Organizer
Asheville, NC