Alyssa and Braydon's Funeral Expenses and lost pay

I'm the mother of Alyssa Cannon & the grandmother of Braydon Ponder, we will be taking donations for funeral expenses and also lost wages from my husband being able to work due to the grief and pain of losing our only daughter and only grandchild. We not only have our Bill's to pay but all of Alyssas Bill's to pay as well.