Family needs help

Hi, my name is Josh and we need help. About 3 weeks ago my mother in law had 3 strokes. We got her to the ER just in time and now under care of some great people. Sadly she will not be able to live on her own anymore so we are looking for a nice retirement home for her. She is have bad mental health issues so she can't stay with us. Now the missed up part. We drove our suv to her house to move her things into storage, our fuel pump went out while there and had to pay $300 for a new one. Sadly I've still still not been able to fix it so we went home which is 2 hours away. We went back a week later to find all the tires slashed. There are 150 each. I've had to empty our savings to pay for the rent and bill which was our Christmas money . I don't like to ask foe help and will pay everyone who can help back.