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Sex and Relationship Coach Certification
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Hello friends, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. In a nutshell, I'm planning to attend the Somatica Institute Sex and Relationship training that starts this October and finishes in April of 2021. Tuition is $6,750; I've applied for their scholarship and have been awarded $750, so now I need to raise the remaining $6k to attend. The other $4000 would help with rent and bills along the way, and would be amazing, but if I get to 6k I'm beyond grateful.
Here is my thinking and my plan: ever since I've been tiny I've been obsessed with relationships and intimacy. What makes love stay? What inspires great sex? Who gets to have it? What rekindles that spark of desire when relationships have grown routine or perhaps even stale or disconnected?
I believe we ALL should get to have mind-blowing sex (if that's what you're into, or fantastic sex, or even just great, fulfilling sex if that's what sounds the best to you). We get to build the sex life we want!! I believe that the skills to do so are both learnable and teachable, and that our world will become a better place, the more people we can empower to live sexually and intimately fulfilled lives.
I will work towards helping individuals empower themselves to enjoy sexual and emotional empowerment and freedom from shame, and to create funds and scholarships once I'm established that enable people with limited access to this type of work to be able to gain said access.
I feel that some counseling leaves individuals feeling shamed, and that we can do better. I also see a lack of sex positivity and acceptance of non-traditional models of relationship in some areas of the counseling world. The future can be better.
I have been studying sex from an insider's perspective for 26 years. I can orgasm in about twenty seconds with a partner that I'm intimately synchronized with, and I can have multiple orgasms to the tune of twenty to sometimes thirty per session (depending, of course and as well as, on the partner involved). And there are orgasms I've experienced that have lasted over a minute. This isn't saying there's a right way to have sex and a wrong way; this is just describing my own personal experience...I know that there are people who would love to improve their sex lives and relationships as well, and I know that I can help. At the risk of sounding incredibly cheesy, this is something I know I was born to do.
Help me to help us all!
Somatica's training is based around the core tenets of compassion, mindfulness, and vulnerability, practices that I believe do help us all to be good humans. *
If you wish to remain anonymous I understand, but what I'm hoping for is to find 20 people who would be willing to loan me $500 each to achieve this goal. I'll keep a register and charge myself interest at 3%, and then once my practice is established and I'm seeing clients, I'll pay each of you back (unless you insist otherwise).
If you're financially stable enough to want to loan more, of course I'll humbly accept; and really, any amount helps, so if you want to chip in anything at all, I hugely appreciate it, and please do!
https://www.somaticainstitute.com/somatica-philosophy/![](https://d2g8igdw686xgo.cloudfront.net/50336718_1597105998126363_r.jpeg)
I'm also happy to offer coaching sessions (once I'm certified, of course) in exchange for your generous support. Just send me a note and let me know your preference, loan or leveling up your sex life! (Or you could gift a session to someone else...)
Feel free to email me any questions!
In gratitude and humility, and
With Pleasure,
Leia
*You can read more about Somatica's philosophy here:
https://www.somaticainstitute.com/somatica-philosophy/
**interest rates can definitely be higher for larger amounts loaned. Tell me what you feel is fair!
Here is my thinking and my plan: ever since I've been tiny I've been obsessed with relationships and intimacy. What makes love stay? What inspires great sex? Who gets to have it? What rekindles that spark of desire when relationships have grown routine or perhaps even stale or disconnected?
I believe we ALL should get to have mind-blowing sex (if that's what you're into, or fantastic sex, or even just great, fulfilling sex if that's what sounds the best to you). We get to build the sex life we want!! I believe that the skills to do so are both learnable and teachable, and that our world will become a better place, the more people we can empower to live sexually and intimately fulfilled lives.
I will work towards helping individuals empower themselves to enjoy sexual and emotional empowerment and freedom from shame, and to create funds and scholarships once I'm established that enable people with limited access to this type of work to be able to gain said access.
I feel that some counseling leaves individuals feeling shamed, and that we can do better. I also see a lack of sex positivity and acceptance of non-traditional models of relationship in some areas of the counseling world. The future can be better.
I have been studying sex from an insider's perspective for 26 years. I can orgasm in about twenty seconds with a partner that I'm intimately synchronized with, and I can have multiple orgasms to the tune of twenty to sometimes thirty per session (depending, of course and as well as, on the partner involved). And there are orgasms I've experienced that have lasted over a minute. This isn't saying there's a right way to have sex and a wrong way; this is just describing my own personal experience...I know that there are people who would love to improve their sex lives and relationships as well, and I know that I can help. At the risk of sounding incredibly cheesy, this is something I know I was born to do.
Help me to help us all!
Somatica's training is based around the core tenets of compassion, mindfulness, and vulnerability, practices that I believe do help us all to be good humans. *
If you wish to remain anonymous I understand, but what I'm hoping for is to find 20 people who would be willing to loan me $500 each to achieve this goal. I'll keep a register and charge myself interest at 3%, and then once my practice is established and I'm seeing clients, I'll pay each of you back (unless you insist otherwise).
If you're financially stable enough to want to loan more, of course I'll humbly accept; and really, any amount helps, so if you want to chip in anything at all, I hugely appreciate it, and please do!
https://www.somaticainstitute.com/somatica-philosophy/
![](https://d2g8igdw686xgo.cloudfront.net/50336718_1597105998126363_r.jpeg)
I'm also happy to offer coaching sessions (once I'm certified, of course) in exchange for your generous support. Just send me a note and let me know your preference, loan or leveling up your sex life! (Or you could gift a session to someone else...)
Feel free to email me any questions!
In gratitude and humility, and
With Pleasure,
Leia
*You can read more about Somatica's philosophy here:
https://www.somaticainstitute.com/somatica-philosophy/
**interest rates can definitely be higher for larger amounts loaned. Tell me what you feel is fair!
Organizer
Leia Allmon
Organizer
Eugene, OR