Help me save my mum

Help me save my mum, or at least make this Christmas rememberable not only for my mum, but my 9 year old daughter. 

bit of a back story. My mum Cheryl is the kind of woman that loves, she loves unconditionally with everything she has, she helps those that are in need, she’s always helped the people in my life as well as others she knows. She has had her own chronic health problems and supports me and my daughter intensely because of my own chronic health conditions that have impacted all our lives, but still does her upmost best whenever she can. She’s the glue that holds this family together. 

Then on the 10th December 2020, just when you think this world couldn’t get much more evil, the unimaginable happened.. she’s diagnosed with a brain tumour. All our worlds came crashing down with one Big Bang, my daughter was first to witness the episode that led mum having more tests, in a way I’m thankful she was with my daughter when it happened because it gave her more reason to reachout for me to get back because of lily, had she had been at home knowing my mum she wouldn’t have probably bothered about it so much or wanted to worry anyone. So that we have to be thankful for. 

Saying that there is no telling how long it’s been there but given the weekly ‘feelings’ or episode so to speak it then hit a whole new level Monday night, so time is of the essence. They have said operation will hopefully be between Christmas and new year, but as it was hard for my mum to take in all the information we are waitingfor it all written down to research understand and see what options are and this is where I ask you, people that know myselfand my mum, and people that don’t, I can’t lose her, my daughter can’t, I’m going to source the best CBD oil I can even if just to help her body fight as she is immunosuppressant. She’s been told will have to have chemo tablets after surgery so for someone with a healthy body chemo can be quite harsh but for someone immunosuppressant, she needs all the help she can get. I also want tomake this Christmas special, especially I do for my daughter if the worst was to happen. This family has been through enough over the years. I have to be prepared but before that I need to exhaust every Avenue. We also want to potentially look at a second opinion privately but that’s going to come at a cost we just don’t have. It all does. I understand times are hard, we all do. This is a shot in the dark and I’ve never done anything like this before but I have to try. Last hut not least she would like to look into a bucket list, and I know one of them would be to go to her favourite place Lanzarote as soon as she was able. It’s her safe haven and place of relaxation which she needs more than ever. Whatever she wants I want to be able to make it possible. 

Help me help her fight this. If I ever needed people before this is nothing to then, nows where it matters