Top Surgery for Alfie
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Heyy guys, I hope you'll take a couple minutes to read this and think about donating whatever you can to help out my boyfriend.
I met my boyfriend, Alfie, back in the beginning of January. Immediately I knew he was something special. I didn't quite know what it was at first, but every second I spent with him was bliss. He's kind, loving, attentive, artistic, smart (in his own ways lmaoo), but the quality I've fallen for most is his ability to listen. I have spent my entire life having SOOOO much to say, but no one who wanted to listen to me. Talking to him and just being around him are my greatest joys in life. He's brought me so much happiness in the near 7 months we've been together.
And although I would very much like to do this for him myself, out of my own pocket, its simply not feasible at the moment due to my own financial burdens. This fundraiser is for my boyfriend's transgender top-surgery. Alfie is ftm trans and as such his chest has been a tremendous burden on him throughout his life. A feature that many have complimented him on growing up, while also misgendering him, has been a huge source of depression and dysphoria for him.
There is NOTHING in this world he wants more immediately than to have this top surgery performed. His first thought when he wakes up is to put on his binder to help decrease the dysphoria he immediately feels. His first thought when he meets new people is if his chest is too large and if he "passes". I do not want his chest to be such a burden on him and his life. I want to see him flourish, I want to see him free, I want to see him happy.
Please, if you can donate, anything at all, me and my boyfriend would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much for reading.
Costs are broken down as such:
Bilateral mastectomy - $2,500.00
Hospital fee - $2,535.00
Anesthesia fee - $650.00
Total coming to $5,685.00
The additional $815.00 of this fundraiser's goal is to cover additional costs that may come up, such as gas costs, food costs while traveling, and any fees that GoFundMe takes out. Attached is a photo from the doctor's office detailing costs for the top surgery.
I met my boyfriend, Alfie, back in the beginning of January. Immediately I knew he was something special. I didn't quite know what it was at first, but every second I spent with him was bliss. He's kind, loving, attentive, artistic, smart (in his own ways lmaoo), but the quality I've fallen for most is his ability to listen. I have spent my entire life having SOOOO much to say, but no one who wanted to listen to me. Talking to him and just being around him are my greatest joys in life. He's brought me so much happiness in the near 7 months we've been together.
And although I would very much like to do this for him myself, out of my own pocket, its simply not feasible at the moment due to my own financial burdens. This fundraiser is for my boyfriend's transgender top-surgery. Alfie is ftm trans and as such his chest has been a tremendous burden on him throughout his life. A feature that many have complimented him on growing up, while also misgendering him, has been a huge source of depression and dysphoria for him.
There is NOTHING in this world he wants more immediately than to have this top surgery performed. His first thought when he wakes up is to put on his binder to help decrease the dysphoria he immediately feels. His first thought when he meets new people is if his chest is too large and if he "passes". I do not want his chest to be such a burden on him and his life. I want to see him flourish, I want to see him free, I want to see him happy.
Please, if you can donate, anything at all, me and my boyfriend would greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much for reading.
Costs are broken down as such:
Bilateral mastectomy - $2,500.00
Hospital fee - $2,535.00
Anesthesia fee - $650.00
Total coming to $5,685.00
The additional $815.00 of this fundraiser's goal is to cover additional costs that may come up, such as gas costs, food costs while traveling, and any fees that GoFundMe takes out. Attached is a photo from the doctor's office detailing costs for the top surgery.
Organizer
Matthew Skrabak
Organizer
Newark, DE