Struggling mom with sick son

My name is Sandy and I'm asking for help on behalf of my Good friend Marissa who has a very sick son that's been in and out of the hospital for the last 3 years with something called PH1 that attacks the kidneys causing huge painful stones that frequently need surgery to remove. Due to this and the fact he's autistic mom has been put in a situation where at times she can not pay her bills or buy basic things like holiday meals. She's a great person who helps everyone else but never wants to ask for help so I'm asking for them. They are in need of help to keep on the electric and heat even with crisis they can't pay the mthly bills to keep it on, they need gas to get to and from Dr's or hospital stays, hospital parking, money so mom can eat and things while staying with her son each hospital stay, wren he's lucky enough to be home they need holiday meals if her son is actually at home would be great since the last 3 years he's missed those being in the hospital, when he is in the hospital he's also autistic so things need to be bought to make it comfortable for him in that setting. they have a cat and a wiring with special needs dog that is her sons. And I'm sure there are other little things they need too and maybe big things I don't yet know of. So let's help the helper and give this child a great holiday season. One with warmth and light (literally)