Help Wanted for Sergio Cordero

On the morning of January 29, 2025, Sergio Cordero was called to be with the Lord. Nearly 5 years after his diagnosis, he succumbed to a prolonged struggle with cancer, Melanoma. Originating from trauma on his left foot, cancer spread to his lymph nodes. It conjured a tumor on his brain ultimately, devouring his entire body.

He was the second eldest son of Maria and Margarito Cordero of EL Monte, Ca. He leaves behind his older brother Joe Cordero, and younger siblings Patricia and Miguel, including his niece, Angelina Cordero.

He has 3, living grown children. He retired to heaven accompanied by his newborn son, Sergio Jonathan Cordero (born and passed away July 27, 2001). He loved his children unconditionally, even if they (the living) rarely made time to communicate with him. He was an outstanding hardworking man with a friendly, sincere, caring personality. He was a VERY forgiving person. He forgave everyone who sinned VERY ugly against him too (by the way, God knows exactly who you are and what you did).

He was a man of many talents. He was known for being a friendly business man and landscaping architect. He excelled in the field because his dad owned a landscaping business. His parents couldn’t have acquired their home they live in now, without the help of both Sergio and his older brother Joe.

He didn't like onions. Didn't really care for cats but made exceptions for his kids. He loved his German Rottweiler "Caine". He had a great sense of humor. Among many other traits to long to list; he was smart, talented, generous, and an excellent chef. He liked a cold beer in a frosty chilled mug. He was so approachable, he always made friends wherever he went. He was loved by many people both in Mexicali and here locally. He was a valuable member of our family.

His body was riddled by this unforgiving death. He was given the probability of surviving for at least 5 years. During the time, he continued stranded and living his last days in Mexicali Baja Ca. He maintained communication with his parents especially his mom.

He would assist them in every possible way from making doctor appointments to organizing transportation for errands, to assuring medication was taken and more. He was disgusted that some of us were closer and didn't make an effort to reach out and help. And he was right. Despite the distance, the welfare of his parents his priority.

Strong-willed as he was, he refrained from sharing his physical pain. He would mention he didn't want to inconvenience anyone with his state of health. By the fall of 2024, his condition worsened rapidly. There were obvious signs of memory, speech and language impairments. You can hear the frustration in his voice, “I hate this sh*t,” he would say. “I can’t talk right.” It was heartbreaking and difficult to ignore his cancer was at its peak.

Frustrated with his entire situation, he did say, “Nobody gives a F***, but when I’m gone, that’s when they’ll all be crying.” It was understandable. He'd been through many turbulent years while juggling many tasks and trying to survive. He didn’t have enough emotional support from where it counted the most. We failed him, as did other systems of government that move at turtle speed.

He spent his last Christmas in Hospice Care. And the New Year only brought grim news. While in the care facility and prior to losing his ability to speak; he said he had to leave because he had to go to work. Even on his death bed he was worried about his obligations. Later on it was followed by, "My dad is going to come for me," ("Mi papa va a venir por mi..."). By January 2, 2025, it was encouraged to have family and friends visit him before his departure. A visit was made by family. His dad for unknown reasons never made it back. Sergio passed away peacefully early that morning on January 29, 2025, again, all alone.

Somethings are inevitable like losing our loved ones. It's a part of life. But we can make it the greatest by simply being more compassionate and loving people. We need to embrace our loved ones daily and not wait until they have one foot in the grave. The grim reaper is on a schedule and waits for no one. No cutting in line, appointments only.

In the meantime, a handful of us will weep remorseful tears for days through years unknown. We have regrets of nonfulfillment comforting support. The countless occasions when Sergio needed that emotional aid the most, he was left abandoned with involuntary solitude. Devastating.

Throughout his forsaken and excruciating journey he was sentenced to, particular individuals preferred to look the other way. Perhaps blinded negative influences, selfishness and self-centeredness. Hopefully, we all learn from these costly mistakes. And in return, honor this righteous person to the best of our ability and fulfill his last requests.

On February 18, 2025, Sergio’s body was transported from Baja Ca. to Los Angeles County. He now awaits in a humble, Mexican built casket, tucked away in a fridge in Monterey Park, Ca. He is at Torres Mortuary 1965 Potrero Grande, Monterey Park, Ca.

He had wished for a traditional burial and rest close to his infant son, at Rose Hills Memorial Park 3888 Workman Mill Rd, Whittier, CA 90601. Time is critical and his immediate and extended family is seeking the public's help.

They are requesting prayers for this challenging chapter in their lives. All prayers are welcome and encouraged. Monetary donations of any size are greatly appreciated. With your help, we can achieve Sergio's request and provide him and his parents closure.

On behalf, of Sergio's mother and father, We thank you immensely for taking your time to read a bit about his story and what is necessary to accomplish this goal. It's challenging but we have faith that we will reach the target.

We encourage you to contact us if you have any questions, concerns, and suggestions. If you have a memory you would like to share, we'd love to her from you too.

Please note, that this is the ONLY authorized fundraiser for Sergio Cordero's funeral expenses. There is absolutely no other fund raising coordination outside of GoFundMe or other fund raising sites at this time. (It has been shared with family and friends via Instagram and Facebook)

Please report any questionable collections to us. Thank You.

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The attached photos are of Sergio with a baby goat, followed by a document listing his the malignant melanoma, then a photo of Necrosis of his left big toe, and a scan of his brain showing a large tumor that complicated his condition.