Help a t4t polcule pay for ongoing medical costs

.: UPDATE :.

This GFM was originally intended to help resolve moving costs and debt- we were able to get a large amount of that covered both through the incredibly selfless donations of everyone who helped us here, as well as doing some things for cash IRL that we didn't know were options (or weren't comfortable originally doing, but realized we had no choice.)

At this point, everyone is moved up here. However, medical costs remain an issue, as does the debt originally mentioned. I am leaving this GFM up to assist with those ongoing costs, but I want it to be clear that the immediate 'crisis' this GFM originally regarded has been resolved, albeit not ideally. Donations will still be allowed because, frankly, the ongoing concerns mentioned are still serious issues for us. I hope that this makes the situation clear; we can still use the assistance but we want to make ABSOLUTELY sure that there are no false pretenses. Thank you for understanding!

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Hello everyone. Ill keep this short and... Well, bittersweet.

Im a trans woman and a usmc vet who is in a relationship with 2 other trans women from florida and who has a fully disabled queer roommate as well.

About a month ago, me and my partners saw the writing on the wall with how things were going and decided to move everyone up to the northeast where we would be safer.

We cannot afford our rent. We cannot afford our bills. We dumpster dive for food more than we buy groceries, and i have had to not only medically detransition but stop all of my therapy and psychiatric care because i canot afford it. If we dont get some help within the next 2 months, we are homeless to boot- AND my secondary stays stuck down there.

On top of our normal monthly bills, we also need to save up enough money to get into a new apartment so were not squeezing 4 people into a 1 bedroom IF we can get my second gf up here (right now were 3 people in the apartment.) Add this to the fact we are trying to find money to move my secondary up as well.

Moving my primary gf out here has completely bankrupted me. My secondary partner is still trapped in Florida, with no way out in a state RAPIDLY increasing its hatred towards us. My roommate, whose lovely, cannot work and most of her disability goes towards medical issues.

Please, if you can find it in you to help, it would mean a lot. Even just sharing this gem would go a long way. We set thegoal at $6500 since we think that will get us all safe and on our feet living wise, tho of course additional money will help pay for much needed medical and psychiatric care for us.

((Sorry for the vagueness and anon account. Weve heard trans GFMs have been getting targetted by bigots, and we dont want to be made bigger victims than we already are))