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In Loving Remembrance of Ale: Family Support

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Dear friends and family and all supporters,
Our names are Stefania, Emma, and Kim and we are fundraising for our friend, Ale Gambini's family. It is with heavy heart that we share the heartbreaking news of our dear friend Ale Gambini's passing. Known to many as In "A Queen in the Kitchen ", Ale valiantly battled stage IV pancreatic cancer for a year. Despite enduring numerous challenging rounds of chemotherapy, a significant Whipple surgery, and placing her hopes on an experimental clinical trial, she faced unimaginable suffering before peacefully departing from us a month ago, on February 26th at th tender age of 52.

Ale's journey was a testament to her unwavering courage, strength, and indomitable spirit. She was a true warrior, bravely fighting in silence, never losing hope until her final day. Ale was a beacon of light in our lives, spreading love and joy wherever she went. Whether sharing her delicious signature tiramisu or lasagna or simply being there to lend an ear, Ale touched the hearts of all who knew her.

As friends and neighbors of Ale, we've treasured countless memories with her over the past decade. From the shared
experiences of raising our children together and participating in school activities to the relaxed moments of conversation
on our patios, as well as hanging out together during Thanksgiving and major holidays, our bond runs deep.

Just over a year ago, Ale and her family embarked on an exciting new chapter in Orange County, filled with anticipation for the opportunities that awaited them. Despite her illness, Ale's determination remained unwavering as she fulfilled her
dream of becoming an American citizen alongside her husband after 15 years in the USA, attending the oath ceremony just a week after her surgery. Her presence brought warmth and laughter into our lives, and her absence leaves an irreplaceable void.

Unfortunately, we are all too familiar with the devastating impact of cancer, especially within the context of the American healthcare system. Despite the remarkable advances and cutting-edge treatments available, the toll of cancer extends far beyond the emotional realm, encompassing significant financial burdens as well. Despite being prepared with health insurance, the medical expenses far exceeded expectations, impacting savings meant for retirement and their daughter's education.

Ale's diagnosis came as a shock, emerging from seemingly nowhere—a mere dull back pain in an otherwise apparently
healthy individual who diligently underwent annual preventative care. Her sudden passing has left her family grappling with the unexpected loss of income, as her husband heroically balanced caregiving responsibilities alongside his work commitments. Despite the immense personal turmoil, he continued to teach his students with unwavering professionalism and positivity, all while his wife silently battled her illness. What's truly remarkable is that throughout this challenging journey, the family remained fiercely private, choosing not to burden others with their struggles. Their humility and strength in the face of adversity speak volumes about their character.

Ale's legacy will endure through the cherished memories we hold dear, the love we share, and the remarkable body of work she leaves behind. From her captivating videos to her insightful articles and cherished books, Ale's contributions will continue to inspire and uplift others for years to come. She was more than just a talented chef and writer; above all, she was a devoted wife, a loving mother, and a genuine friend.

We are reaching out to our community for support during this difficult time. While the emotional wounds may never fully
heal, your generosity can help alleviate some of the financial burdens they face. Together, let us rally around this resilient
family as they navigate this new chapter of their lives. Let us unite as a village and honor her memory by joining hands to support those she held dear. No donation is too small, and every contribution will make a difference.

Thank you for your kindness, love, and support during this challenging time.

With heartfelt gratitude,
Stefania, Emma, and Kim

P.S. Ale's family deeply appreciates your participation, extending an opportunity for you to honor Ale's memory and perpetuate her spirit. As a token of gratitude, they are delighted to offer those interested in a copy of Ale’s latest book, "No Ketchup on Spaghetti," accompanied by a personalized message and a gift from their family. After making your donation, to request your gift, please visit Ale's website (aqueeninthekitchen ) and click on the contact page to send a message. Kindly include your full name, address, and the date of your donation.


Here’s a message from Ale's family.

Dear Stefania, Emma, and Kim,
We are immensely grateful for your heartfelt initiative. Your kindness has touched us deeply, and Angie and I are profoundly moved by your efforts. The outpouring of love and support from all of you has been overwhelming, and we feel incredibly blessed by your care and compassion. If Ale were still with us, she would be deeply touched by the warmth and generosity you have shown.

Losing my soulmate and best friend of 25 years has left an indescribable void in our lives. Witnessing our 14-year-old daughter navigate her mother's battle with cancer until her passing has been particularly challenging. However, with the support of friends like you, we are finding the strength and resilience to face each day with hope. Your kindness serves as a beacon of light in our darkest moments, offering us hope and comfort amidst overwhelming sorrow. We hold onto the belief that life holds promise for a new chapter, both for my daughter and me. Though Ale may no longer be here physically, her spirit lives on in our hearts, thanks to friends like you who keep her memory alive. In this time of grieving, we are choosing love over anger, and your unwavering support is helping us move forward.

Deciding to accept help via the GoFundMe page has been a genuine struggle for us. As reserved individuals, exposing our vulnerability hasn't been easy. However, after reflection and discussions with Angie, we realized that the support from people like you, Stefania, and Kim, as well as all those who send us compassionate messages, is a testament to the affection and support Ale has received. Accepting this help isn't just about pride; it's also about acknowledging that facing such a difficult situation alone isn't feasible. Your generous gesture deeply touches us and gives us strength to overcome this.

We want to extend our heartfelt thanks to every one of you—our family, friends, collaborators, acquaintances, fans, and fellow food and life enthusiasts—for keeping Ale and all of us in your thoughts and for your incredible support. Your love truly means the world to us. We also want to acknowledge that we understand many of you are grieving for our beloved Ale as well, and we have much love and respect for that.

With heartfelt gratitude and love,
Maurizio “OttO” & Angie









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