Honoring Ascher Cabarle In Memory of Michael Tolle
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Michael Richard Tolle, 42, of Florence, New Jersey left the earth on Monday, April 29, 2019. He leaves behind his beautiful daughter Ascher Ann Cabarle, his mother, Karen Tolle, his brother, Justin Tolle, and countless aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and friends. He was predeceased by his father, Richard Tolle.
To know Michael was to know a powerful force; it was to know Superman. He brightened every room he entered and could lift any mood. Michael could fill any room with his physical presence and energy. He was 6’4 with long legs and arms and an enormous smile that encompassed his whole face. When Michael spoke to you, he did it with his whole being. His blue eyes would lock right into your eyes, he’d smile and nod attentively listening to your every word, ask questions you’d never expect and periodically place one of his massive hands on your back, shoulder or forearm. His hugs would engulf you, as if he was drinking in your spirit, and you walked away feeling happier, brighter and loved.
When Michael was free from the grasps of addiction, he lived life fully. For a living he climbed massive trees with a chainsaw attached to his waist. For fun he skied on snow and water, traveled to Costa Rica to surf, played basketball, baseball, and wiffle ball. Michael just loved to get people together and play with the zest and purity of an innocent child. Michael’s death leaves a deep gaping hole for many of us, but he did not leave us without love. He left us a beautiful, smart, quick-witted daughter. Ascher Ann looks just like him, especially her eyes. To look at Ascher is to see the best parts of Michael. May his light live on in her.
We are starting this campaign to help his daughter. Ascher was everything to Michael and in his absence, this was created for her benefit. Not only is his passing emotionally devastating, it is financially devastating as well. Michael worked hard to provide for his daughter. He provided for her in a way that allowed her to live her life happy and healthy. The bond between them was intense and undeniable. Their love for one another could be seen and felt in their presence. We are asking that you honor Michael and his light, his love and his vivacious spirit for life by contributing to help care for the love of his life and his greatest contribution to this world, his daughter. Ascher Ann Cabarle. All funds raised will be used for her care, schooling and allow her to continue in the life she is most accustomed to.
We do not blame the drowning victim’s choice to swim, we blame the rip current. We do not blame the patient, we blame the cancer. Do not blame Michael, blame the disease. Hold Michael fondly in your heart and memories and may we see and love the living the way we see and love those who have passed.
There will be a Celebration of Life Ceremony for Michael on Saturday May 11, 2019 at 11:00 a.m. at Jar Memorial Park in Roebling, NJ 08554
To know Michael was to know a powerful force; it was to know Superman. He brightened every room he entered and could lift any mood. Michael could fill any room with his physical presence and energy. He was 6’4 with long legs and arms and an enormous smile that encompassed his whole face. When Michael spoke to you, he did it with his whole being. His blue eyes would lock right into your eyes, he’d smile and nod attentively listening to your every word, ask questions you’d never expect and periodically place one of his massive hands on your back, shoulder or forearm. His hugs would engulf you, as if he was drinking in your spirit, and you walked away feeling happier, brighter and loved.
When Michael was free from the grasps of addiction, he lived life fully. For a living he climbed massive trees with a chainsaw attached to his waist. For fun he skied on snow and water, traveled to Costa Rica to surf, played basketball, baseball, and wiffle ball. Michael just loved to get people together and play with the zest and purity of an innocent child. Michael’s death leaves a deep gaping hole for many of us, but he did not leave us without love. He left us a beautiful, smart, quick-witted daughter. Ascher Ann looks just like him, especially her eyes. To look at Ascher is to see the best parts of Michael. May his light live on in her.
We are starting this campaign to help his daughter. Ascher was everything to Michael and in his absence, this was created for her benefit. Not only is his passing emotionally devastating, it is financially devastating as well. Michael worked hard to provide for his daughter. He provided for her in a way that allowed her to live her life happy and healthy. The bond between them was intense and undeniable. Their love for one another could be seen and felt in their presence. We are asking that you honor Michael and his light, his love and his vivacious spirit for life by contributing to help care for the love of his life and his greatest contribution to this world, his daughter. Ascher Ann Cabarle. All funds raised will be used for her care, schooling and allow her to continue in the life she is most accustomed to.
We do not blame the drowning victim’s choice to swim, we blame the rip current. We do not blame the patient, we blame the cancer. Do not blame Michael, blame the disease. Hold Michael fondly in your heart and memories and may we see and love the living the way we see and love those who have passed.
There will be a Celebration of Life Ceremony for Michael on Saturday May 11, 2019 at 11:00 a.m. at Jar Memorial Park in Roebling, NJ 08554
Organizer and beneficiary
Lauren Reome
Organizer
Trenton, NJ
Christine Cabarle
Beneficiary