Help me become a mom!

Hello Everyone,

I have started my journey to become a mom and I need your help. A dream I have had as long as I can remember. Not something I just thought of overnight. Around me all my friends have become moms and dads, they are all doing such a great job. I love their kids so much, they bring me joy and so much happiness. And dont forget my little sister giving me the best gift in the whole world, to become an aunt to Sen.

My love life unfortunetly hasen’t been great to say the least. I havent found a man I thought as being the father of my children. And as we all know time flies by, my 40th birthday is coming closer and closer. Wich means as a woman I have to make a choice. I have decided to try and have a baby on my own. A challenging choice, but one I stand by. A choice I know I will not regret.

I am currently registered with a fertility clinic, where I have been getting tests and check ups. All of this has been payed by a fund. Only one thing that doesn’t get funded is the donor sperm. One cycle costs about €1400 and getting it here to Holland (from the spermbank in ) is another €500. The average person gets pregnant if they’re lucky with 6 to 9 tries. Unfortunately I don’t have the money to make my dream come true. I am putting all my money towards this to in the end have a baby of my own.

I find it difficult to write but I know I will regret it if I don’t try and ask for your help.

This summer I will have a party to get more donations to have my dream baby.

Isnt it amazing to look into the future and think of the moment when I tell my son or daughter how everyone chipped in to have her/him. So much love!