Darlene's Surgery

Hello, my name is Darlene. I am in desperate need of some help. 13 years ago I was diagnosed with UC ( Ulcerative Colitis) LONG story short many,many,many failed medications later I was told I need to have my large intestine removed. I have had that surgery already and now they have to do 2 more surgeries. A proctectomy " on3 of the top 5 most painful surgeries to have" and a parastomal hernia repair. These Dr visits and medications and supplies have really put a strain on our life, especially with everything being so expensive. I hate to ask for help but this is my last option. Any help is appreciated.