Please help my dad pay for his surgery

Hello! My name is matthieu i am the son of Danny! My pops is a 74 year old vietnam war vet, great man, great husband to my mother, and a great dad to me! We recently found out my dad needs surgery for his hernia and as stubborn my dad is he refuses to get it done cause he knows it will hurt us financially and he doesnt wanna put us through that! He rather sit through the pain vs pay for surgery and its heartbreaking watching him struggle to get around the house! He doesnt like to ask for aaany favors and neither do i! But i wanna be able to have my dad living on this earth comfortably so i ask.. anything help and i appreciate everybody who chips in

mahalo