Medical Bills for Pasha and Eli

On October 19th, the day before my birthday, I underwent full shoulder replacement on her right shoulder. I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and have already had one cervical fusion, two lumbar fusions, two full knee replacements, one full knee replacement revision, now one full shoulder replacement. Sadly, it needs a revision and I'm scheduled to go back into surgery December 4th. 

Eli has only been able to work sporadically. Did you know we don't get paid for working at Parasol Patrol? Between more than a dozen events for Parasol Patrol (Trans Day of Remembrance and the anniversary of Club Q) and taking care of me, it's been a challenge. Now he has to take time off again to be my nurse and chauffer. It feels really awkward to ask but things are getting worse financially. Stress isn't very condusive for healing. We are fundraising to get caught up on bills and hopefully provide enough for us to get through this month as well. We just want to tide ourselves over until we can return to work full time.

The funds raised will go directly to bills, food, housing and other necessities. I'm more than willing to share information if you'd rather donate directly to utility companies or gift cards to grocery stores, Amazon, anything. This isn't for Christmas presents or Eli's birthday, Dec. 19th, or anything frivolous.

We would be profoundly grateful for anything you can give to help. And any shares on social media would be so appreciated. I feel extremely vulnerable putting myself out there and asking for help. Thank you for your time reading this, hopefully sharing it and giving any gift you're able.