Fundraiser for Tony and the Ary family
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Hello, my name is Heather Keith-McDaniel, and I am like the daughter of another Mother, according to Donnie and Tony. I am setting up this Go Fund Me Page to help endure the cost of bills, money to eat, etc, while Tony is in the hospital. Donnie would not like me to put much information except what she has written on her Facebook page for everyone to see. I will just say they need ALL THE PRAYERS THAT THEY CAN GET FRIENDS!! PLEASE PRAY FOR DONNIE and KOBE as they continue to try and stay strong through this enduring time as well. I was in this situation myself with my Mom last August and Donnie stuck through it with me the entire time. She was always there when I needed her and her and Tony's heart's are both a million miles wide. They would do anything in the world for anyone if they were able. Please help in anyway possible if you can. If you can't donate, please share this post.
This is in the words from Donnie on the current situation of Tony:
UPDATE THURSDAY:thank you all for prayers, calls & text. Tony Bologne is about the same. There haven’t been any events. Dr’s say it’s ok for now. He has already been to ct this morning and they are hooking everything back up on him currently. He has a little village that travels with him everywhere his color this morning is looking better. Yesterday they fed him a little. I told him it was his chicken fried steak. Dr’s are still working hard.
UPDATE WEDNESDAY: I would like to apologize for the wording about not contacting me about Tony. I didn’t think about how I was writing this. I will try to answer all the text and post about Tony. If I don’t reply at that time I promise to get back with you as soon as I can. thank you all for the prayers, calls & messages. Tony is still critical. His kidney function has diminished. He is not getting better with the swelling of hands and legs. His cardiologist is pretty sure he will need stints but can’t do any surgeries. The new dialysis is working well or at least he tolerating it well. Dr are still trying to get everything under control. They pulled off sedation several days ago and he is still not responding. We must get him to respond or wake up . They will do another EEG to try to see if there is any brain damage. He has a plethora of doctors, ApRNs, nurses, nurse techs. they are all vital to his state. I can’t keep up still. People keep asking what do Kobe and I need. We need your prayers. It’s getting hard to continue to stay away from Kobe. Him and I video multiple times a day and His Nana is keeping him occupied which is amazing. I do not leave hospital until usually around 2-3 am for a couple hours every couple days. I have amazing cousins that have literally said anytime come. Leann Coleman, Rachel King, Leslie Smith this roller coaster we are are is sometimes really fast then it barely moves. #hes1ofthegoodones.
UPDATE TUESDAY: Tony is about the same as yesterday. He is fighting. Kobe got to see his dad yesterday and it was good. Kobe asked his dad to wiggle his nose if he loved him. Not once but 3-4 times he wiggled his nose. Of course everyone things Tony is so sweet lol but he ignores me constantly ♀️ I asked Tony to wiggle his nose if he loved me…..nothing, nope, nada. I laughed because he is still here and if he ignores me I’m perfectly fine. He is all mine & Kobe’s. Thank you all for continuing prayers.
Please please read but do not respond by text to me. It is even more overwhelming trying to tell each of you on text, come guys you know my old age has hit my memory. I’m going to be brief with this post. Everyone that is texting, calling to check up on Tony I’m sorry that I can’t answer every call or text. Tony is extremely sick, he was in ICU in Muskogee a couple days. Tony coded but god brought him back to Kobe & I. They life flighted to him Friday I believe. He has been non responsive since Wednesday. His life is hanging by a thread. One hour we can see a bit of life, next minute he turns backwards. This all was sudden and never ever thought Tony would be like this. Many prayers have been said over his life. I’m not allowing any negatively anywhere around my husband or child. I have committed his life and our crisis to Jesus Christ! He is the only person that can do it. This has been a huge huge wake up call for me. I hope everyone would give me a little bit of grace for not responding to your text or phone call. I will try to update from this post alone daily. We love each of you so much and are so thankful each of you are part of our lives.
Organizer and beneficiary
Heather McDaniel
Organizer
Muskogee, OK
Donnie Ary
Beneficiary