Visiting Terminally ill family

Justin is My Brother. A country strong hard worker w/a constant smile and laugh. 3 yrs ago,He began having headaches. 3 surgeries,innumerable radiation and chemo treatments,His medulloblastoma has spread to His spinal cord and CNS. This is not a favorable outcome at all. His young family and friends are standing by Him strong and proud,however I am far from them all,being in Las Vegas,Nv and they are in Medford,Oregon.
Justin Helped pull Me out of some dark days following My industrial accident in 2007. I was bedridden,in pain constantly,and considering dark options. HE told Me how selfish it would be to take My humor,My love,and My dignity away from others merely cause "It hurts to do anything". "OF COURSE it hurts Bubba,it's LIFE..Life,HURTS...however...the pain does get better,it becomes Joy..Joy becomes love..and love..well,it don't get better than complete,utter love.I Love You Bubbas!". Now...how does one NOT listen to that. This is Justin's thought process still. WE are more upset than HE is. HE is smiling,joking,laughing-when He can make a 20yr cancer nurse leave the room,crying-laughing  after being given His diagnosis "Well wth...it's not like You people aren't screwing up the planet anyhow..might as well go on ahead n get the house set up and what-not'. I mean...This kid is amazeballs! I am seeking to raise some $ so I can visit My Brother before He is taken home. His time is short,and My disability makes car/bus travel impossible.Anything will help.Ty and NaMaste