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Hayes-Wong Accident Recovery & Adoption Fund

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Dear Community,


We are a family of two mommies of color, Lily and Tamika, with two young daughters – a 6-year-old, Sage, and a 3-month-old, Phoenix. On the morning of October 1st, we all survived a hit-and-run accident while driving through an intersection in West Oakland, California. The driver ran a red light, hit us, and sped off. Thankfully, we were able to walk away from the accident but are faced with worsening medical issues, being without our family vehicle, and recovering from stress and trauma. 


We are asking for support from our immediate and extended community through this fund to get us through this intensely difficult time. Tamika was abruptly laid off mere days before Phoenix's due date and Lily has been unemployed for several years. The accident has only exacerbated an already hard financial time.


Our immediate expenses include:

  • Rental Car co-pays
  • Medical co-pays
  • Seed Fund for a Replacement Vehicle


Your support will also help us save for legal fees to adopt our infant. As some of you well know, establishing parenthood for same-sex couples is not automatic, and this accident threatens to derail our original timeline to complete this process.


Any financial support you can offer would be greatly appreciated! Another way to support us would be to forward our GoFundMe link (https://gofund.me/3f6917f6) to possible supporters among your circles, if you feel comfortable. 


If you prefer to donate outside of the GoFundMe platform, we welcome you to Venmo @TJHayes-Wong or @Lily-Hayes-Wong or PayPal @tamikahayeswong or @LilyHayesWong.


If you plan on mailing us a donation, please make your check payable to “Lily & Tamika Hayes-Wong” and use the following mailing address:


Lily & Tamika Hayes-Wong

P.O. Box 3549

San Leandro, CA 94578


With Our Love and Deepest Gratitude,

Tamika, Lily, Sage, & Phoenix Hayes-Wong


p.s. For a few pics of our family and auto accident, please click here.

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Lily Hayes-Wong
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Oakland, CA
Tamika Hayes-Wong
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