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This Campaign tends to help and enable Tam, his family and others have a real chance for a better living and being productive for themselves, their family and their society.

My name is Tam and I wish I can express who I am and how I feel, I know I can’t do a lot because I am disabled, severely disabled, not only because I am autistic but also because I have severe learning disability. I know it may be embarrassing that I can’t learn simple things like everyone. I am even can’t learn how to maintain calm, control my anxiety and not to act like a kid even when I am 20 years old.

It hurt me a lot and embarrassing me and my little family too. I wish I can help my brother in his homework, day to day routines, I wish together could help our mother. Yes she is a single mum and she is suffering because of me. She is sick and exhausted human too.

It is hard to know all of this and can’t do anything, I can’t even help myself. I am locked in my thoughts of solutions, silly ones of just running away. Another one to have a reason why should I live to another day. When I ran away once I got lost or beaten or assaulted by others. My head is tight with my thoughts that lack reality, and so do my home is very tight too. I am sharing my room with my mother and that is a big issue for me and for her. You know I am 20 years old and she wants privacy as well.

My brother is really sad, I can feel that. His room can’t accommodate two persons to be honest. But he can’t study well too, and guess what? That is because of me. I am and many others need special way of help. I may be able to help myself and them. Because I really feel how bad it is. So I thought a lot for first time positively and approached charitable organization through my mother connections to plan something really cool for us. We and everyone feel locked in his autistic trap or suffering more because covid-19 lockdown will be able to be different. We wish to make our families proud like every son or daughter.

I need your help to donate for my campaign to make a difference. To enable us challenge our tough situations or cases. To help us become “a person” and the community cooperate with us not to avoid us. To be productive and contribute to our societies and country. We fed up of getting just sympathy and we want to be able to help every family having such a case not to feel it as the end of the world. 



•Definition Of Tam’s condition And How Its Affecting His Daily Life :

This young person is 19+ years old and he is suffering from Autism spectrum disorder and learning disabilities and recently his situation has been getting worse, he had to go to hospital on March 19 and he was diagnosed with psychosis and he’s under a lot of difficulties about the situation of the house and where he lives as he shares a bedroom with his mum because he has no space of his own. The family situation is a bit difficult as they cannot afford to make him a space, bathroom and room.

•How His Condition Makes Him Scared At All Times From Various Things :

His mother is in a very difficult situation, she’s the only full time Carer for him. As he has no awareness of danger or awareness of space for others, he is always anxious and he has a sensory problem as he gets worried most of the time from the noises such as rain, thunder, wind, fireworks he is also scared of any kind of insect or spiders.
 
•How Tam’s Condition Affecting His Mum And The Negative Impact On Her Health :

His mother always does everything related to him from his personal hygiene and the way he looks, she is also responsible to making sure he is always safe and away from any incident or accident especially when he is outside, he also gets scared from the noises of sirens, she has to be alert all the time with him expect for the few hours which he spends in college, she is always tired and this is impacting on her mental health and her physical health it’s very difficult for her, the doctor now advised her to walk with her walking stick as she has a problem with her left knee, and according to her difficult situation she could collapse at any time and this could affect her younger son and the whole family. As well as a woman she never had any kind of privacy.
 
•The Very Negative Impact On Him As He Doesn’t Have What He Needs :

Whenever he needs to use the toilet he gets very anxious and nervous especially if there is anyone else in the bathroom at the time, this can lead to any accidents and he wets his clothes, he gets very upset however this is something he can’t control, he starts to cry and gets more stressed and frustrated.

•His Mum’s Financial Situation And Struggles And What He very Seriously Needs To Have His Humane Life :

She is a single mother with low income, and she cares for and looks after her son, she can’t offer my son the place that he needs in the house so he can be under her care, having this extra space will also help him learn how to be independent for his future and also help him learn how to avoid any danger, he also needs to feel that he can prepare at least a sandwich for himself to eat, this can help him in his future as she won’t be with him forever and she would like him to learn to face the actual life and concentrate on his future.

•The Positive Impact And Outcome When He Gets What He Really Needs And You Can Help Him Achieves That By Donating To His Case And End His Suffering :

The place will help him in his difficult situation and his bad times so that he can rest in his room as a sensory room and calm down which is a safe environment for him in his own house.

Thank you so much in advance for considering Taneem's case and looking at it seriously with your kind donations to make a dream comes true and end suffering had been going on for a very long time

TAM
The Imperial SOS Academy C.I.C
working for our beloved
registered Community Interest Company (Charitable organisation)
13248814 England and Wales
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    • £50
    • 4 yrs
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