Help Debra with Her Sons Final Services

My name is Lori. Myself, along with fellow co-workers, have developed this page to aide our friend, Debra Richard. Although we can't make the pain go away, we can try to help ease her financial burdens and provide peace of mind if not for only a minute.

Debra was a single mom of an amazing son, David, who she lost this past Saturday unexpectedly. There was no warning, no indication, and sadly no time for goodbyes. David was her life and she was his. Being autistic, David felt more comfortable staying primarily at home for most of his life. With this said, Debra lost not only her son last Saturday, she lost her best friend.

Out of respect for Debra, I don't want to divulge the intimate details surrounding David's death, other than to say, we are still unsure, including the hospital medical staff, as to what caused David's passing. There was no history of previous medical issues. No current illness or disease nor signs or symptoms of any. No matter the medical reason, Debra needs our help!

What Debra loved is that even though David was autistic, he was still able to keep up his end of the banter with his mom. David loved to cook and Debra loved to blame his amazing cooking talents as the reason she no longer had an hour glass figure. In fact, David took as much care of his mom as she took care of him. Truly, their relationship was built on love, respect, understanding and a lot of humor!!

For those of you who don't know Debra, she is extremely quick witted, sarcastic and one of the strongest women I know. She is always willing to help those in need but will never ask for help when she needs it most. David's unexpected passing has been emotionally devastating to say the least. Already on a strict financial budget, outside factors over the course of the last year have made this unexpected and unforeseen loss financially debilitating as well.

Sadly, David's everyday presence, sense of humor, caring nature and culinary skills is what Debra is missing most. He was taken home far too soon. The loss of a loved one is hard enough to bare, but to lose a child (grown or not) is hell on earth. I ask that all who read this to have not only sympathy and empathy for Debra's loss but to feel the need for action.

I am asking that everyone who reads this to place yourself in her shoes. Imagine losing your child just 2 weeks before Christmas, having no financial means to provide the necessary services to honor your son’s life and lay him at peace. To have been laughing and talking literally one minute and the next they are gone! To have to think of going home to an empty home and hear nothing but dreaded silence as the reality of your new life sinks in.

I am asking everyone who reads this, please help Debra provide David with the proper final arrangements. No amount is too small or too large. This was a loving, hardworking family of 2 that has suffered beyond imagination. We appreciate any help you can provide.