Help Jessica navigate the rest of her life

Hi my name is Jessica Randall, on my 41st birthday which is may 6 I had a meeting with my doctor following up with why I wasn't able to keep any food down and why I was throwing everything up all the time. They told me that I have cancer, neuroendocrine carcinoma, was the diagnosis which is incurable and that we would have to start treatment right away. They gave me one and a half years to two at most. I cannot work now and that leaves my family not having all of the money we need. Not only that but when I do pass I don't want to burden them with the expenses that come with that of a funeral, as that will be hard and a grieving time. I am married to Stefan we have been married for 21 years We have three daughters Ashley,Kaitlyn,and Haley Randall If you can help at all it is greatly appreciated, anything helps. Thank you.