Help me Amanda lane mouth and neck cancer

After a big op last October 2020, we was told would get rid of the cancer, found out in January that the mouth and neck cancer was present and both sides of neck and had spread.I was told I would have 6-24 months left, palliative care, I have gone from 13 to 8 stone, I have a stomach rigg,so nil by mouth. No voice,I have a husband and 16 year old daughter.I am 50 in October. I am fundraising for a bench at my favourite railway the hythe, dungeness railway, bench to get for the platform at dungeness.Also help with funeral expenses.