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I am a sister who is 21 years old and have suffered from having orthodontic abuse. My gums were bright red in the past showing gum disease yet my braces weren’t removed 

At 19 years old I went to a private periodontist who diagnosed me with gum disease. 
Gum disease is serious as aggressive bacteria eats away at the gums and travels in the bloodstream causing havoc to the organs of the body and immune system. It is also very painful. There’s 4 stages of gum disease I was diagnosed with stage 2 at 19 years old. Stage 3&4 is when you lose your teeth. I’m always in pain and cannot work full time due to the uncomfortable gum recession I have on my upper mouth. My gums are also thin - the teeth show through them. Hypertrichosis is when there’s excessive hairs in targeted areas of the body (localised). There’s different types of the illness for example generalised (all over the body), localised (targeted areas) nevoid, werewolf etc

My gum disease causes extreme fatigue as the bacteria enters the bloodstream and causes havoc to the organs of the body and immune system

This fundraiser is for wisdom tooth surgery and gum treatments anything additional will be mentioned etc I am not always online as I’m in pain etc 

I do have autism and adults with autism find decision making very hard and we overthink and become hesitant… so please bare with me I never put full amount in as I need time to think about my treatment plans. Pictures and evidences of gum disease and surgery and gum recession all shown in next slide etc 

My gum disease treatments weren’t on nhs as scaling and polishing on nhs fail patients as they still end up losing their teeth. So I had to go privately and do laser gum treatments at Behrens dental practice. It costed £4k. I worked in pain and fundraised £2k. A brother from Italy also went to Behrens after being referred to a periodontist to do scaling and polishing which failed him. And there r other several reviews of patients told they’ll lose their teeth and end up doing this treatment from Behrens instead. 



Any updates for treatment plans I’ll include this is minimum for now. (Refer to thread as I can’t type im in pain). I’ve removed electrolysis out of this fundraiser as the wisdom tooth surgery is more urgent rn.

in’shaa’Allah 

This fundraiser is anything got to do with my hypertrichosis (teeth, gums etc) including consultation appointments and food as I am at my nan’s home and I barely eat here so need help here 

I am due for a gum graft but have review appointments. This fundraiser includes appointments fees for anything got to do with my teeth and gums
 
Update: I’m including my electrolysis in this. Since I can’t afford it. So the remaining money will go towards there. I do suffer with hypertrichosis and there’s only one clinic that’s able to treat me that does long sessions etc electrolysis is a medical procedure whereby the follicles are cut from blood supply using electric current via a needle. My condition is rare and I’m tested with it as traditional methods do not work etc and it’s a financial struggle. I’ve had permission to fundraise for it. Anything additional is my gum treatments which I’ve shown in my very first thread the letter for it etc and I’ll post all reciepts up. I’ve taken out too many gap years from uni over my health as in the past I had gum disease and had to go privately to Behrens dental practice 

It’s taking a huge toll on me financially all my expenses as I haven’t even finished my degree to have a proper job etc so I am struggling. I do have an imams permission for this so I’ve included it now. 


Update: any remaining money will go towards food too as I do need to eat soft diet etc and will be resting after surgery. I’ve left to my nan’s home as I had a domestic situation so would need a bit of help with food and bedcovers and necessary essentials etc

At the age of 18 I got diagnosed with gum disease. 18-19 I spent time doing treatments at Behrens dental practice etc and have no savings. It all went to the laser gum treatments. nhs didn’t pick up on my wisdom teeth so I honestly fell sick and came off uni in October 2023. So yes cuz of gum graft surgery and wisdom I can’t really work as much and need help with the electrolysis etc imam said to include it’s as all under one and I haven’t been uni yet either 

The Messenger of Allah said: 'Whoever relieves a Muslim of some worldly distress, Allah will relieve him of some of the distress of the Day of Resurrection Sunnan Ibn Majah 225

. I don’t have any family support and I’m struggling badly. I was neglected by nhs dentist. My father cancelled my hygiene appointments during braces leading to this mess…orthodontist didn’t explain to him the importance of hygiene appointments and he cancelled them thinking it’s a scam and I ended up with gum disease. I would need help with food as grandma cooks spicy and I can’t have spicy due to my acid reflux. 

If anyone wants to verify me privately you can

This fundraiser is to help me out with food mainly maintenance treatments for my gums… my electrolysis as I’m trying my best to save for my gum graft. 


UPDATE: 

Inna lilahi wa inna ilayhi rajooon my grandma has passed away on 13th September so I’m back at mum’s. Fundraiser still includes food gum hygiene cleans electrolysis we managed with upper wisdom removal the lower two wisdom I managed myself. I desperately need help because it’s not the full amount I have my overbite to fix too and frenectomy to do before gum graft surgery so I’m in need of help here

Please read update: 

I have a domestic abuse situation at home and it’s severe. I’m not allowed to cook after 5. I have recordings, this is due to mum’s trauma about home fire which happened when I was at nans home. This is impacting my recovery after surgery. After surgery I sleep in pain and get up at 4 to get food. I am planning to move out for my gum graft which is why I didn’t include it. I come home at uni at around 6 so some days I starve. If an emergency pops up and I need to leave home the money will go towards rent. I need help here.

Final update 2025:  What this fundraiser was for was mentioned on the thread as people don’t read the link but since I want to get off social media for my mental health as the trolling is insane I’ll mention it here. I had wisdom surgery to do. NHs refused to do it as tooth was close to the nerve so I had no option but to go private. Mum was scared for me to do it so I left to nans home. I needed help with food whilst I work in pain to fund my wisdom surgery. We managed with the upper wisdom extraction with lower I did it myself using work money. I just needed help with food because grandma cooks spicy on daily basis and I couldn’t eat spicy often due to my gums I can only eat spicy once in a while. I couldn’t cook as I would be in pain and exhausted from work so sometimes would order out. I needed help with bed covers at nans home and food and clothes as we did have a home fire and most of my clothes which i left at mums got burnt. This was mentioned in thread and can be shown to police if any allegations arise. Electrolysis was mentioned in thread and I told people I have hypertrichosis and can’t afford my electrolysis . A lot of people were happy to donate. I didn’t mention medical side of things as this time unlike two years ago I just wanted treatment to get rid of my illness. People were happy to donate so the trolling needs to stop as I myself couldn’t afford it due to wisdom surgery expenses . Fast forward grandma died September 13th I went back to mum’s home. My fundraiser included gum cleans every 2/3 months which I showed email from clinic in thread. I have thin gums and gum graft surgery is to thicken the gums. I showed a picture of my gums - teeth show through the gums. My surgeon is originally from smile clinic but she didn’t have availability in August and I wanted to do surgery away from mum and mum said she’s going umrah in August . So RW perio I switched to. I paid for treatments to prepar3 me for surgery. To get rid of gum inflammation. Dr Reena said she’s here in August time verbally to me however the clinic didn’t tell me she’s on maternity leave in April  No one told me and when I raised my concerns about the misinformation being told me to about whose gonna do my surgery I got dismissed from clinic. I as cannot say anything further than this but when a troll emailed RW perio they shouldn’t have responded as it’s against GDR policy. They confirmed my perio chart is correct which they shouldn’t have done because anyone can post my letter and pretend to be me. They should’ve asked me first if I posted it.  My troll claimed I raised nearly £20k for RW perio treatments over the years and instead of clinc approaching me they reacted “this is concerning”. My troll then posted my reaction on Twitter. My troll never posted my letter that stated price of £1k of treatments before surgery instead she confused my clinic as they assume I raised nearly £20k for their treatments hence responded the quoted price troll made isn’t matching their treatment price.  There’s not a single evidence just words yet that I’ve raised nearly £20k for dental treatments alone from RW perio I did a fundraiser at 19 for gum disease treatments weekly laser sessions at Behrens dental practice raised £2k and then a brother gave me £2k in a separate fundraiser I had to do and twitter fundraiser  Anyways later I went back to smile cliniq and she had availability on 9th July. I booked surgery then. But because of my domestic situation at home I cancelled it as I can’t do surgery around my autistic brother as he’s violent.  There’s email confirmation of cancellation from clinic themselves and reciept etc and letter if I was a scammer I wouldn’t have proofs  Lastly because of cooking curfews at home I needed help with food as I can’t cook after uni. So this fundraiser helped with my situation. I have done nothing wrong and can’t wait to meet everyone who encouraged two online female cyber trolls to bully me slander me. Whoever joined in I’ll be taking your good deeds. Never chose any of my health issues or anything neither my domestic situation which I no longer wanna get into details about but have proofs  Oh I forgot to mention frenum surgery was covered here too. People mainly read thread so barely update link. 



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