Help the Ogle’s Make It Right

Hi my friends, family, loved ones, future loved ones, and those who just love…

So myself....along with my ride or die road dog for life, Koby and my adorably rad five year old little love of my life daughter, Taylor…could really use some help right now getting back on the right road and righting some wrongs that have been wrong to us recently..,..those wrongs that have left us broke, heart broken, homeless, yet still Hopeful…

Over just the last six weeks…

I lost my fiancé…. Not due to heart stopping and actually dying, but due to not actually having a heart at all. Thought we were our perfect forevers…hence the ring asked for, given, accepted and put on finger just few months ago.

And with no heart comes an out of nowhere without warning kicked out of the home we lived in for two and a half years…by the police with just 30 minutes to do so… because she got a a bullsh*t emergency restraining order just to break up with me and have us out on the street asap. So that was unexpected,,,since just within two weeks prior she was planning wedding, saying how lucky we were, and trying to make a baby. So forgive my ignorance to be confused and a little hurt. Oh, and she had a new boyfriend the next day if that helps explain the needed rush.

But of course being a bit stupid when it comes to love I came back at 3am to do my Say Anything John Cusack boombox moment and play a punk rock love song outside fiancés house. She nor the neighbors thought it was as cute as I did so cops came….and I went to jail.

After getting out of my two days of sobering up and time to think about maybe better song choice next time…..I go back to my shop that I’ve rented for over a year where I build custom outdoor buildings..sheds, ADUs, food carts, tiny homes, homes for the homeless or in-betweeners as I like, etc. And build them as good or better than anyone else for half the cost. Because I love doing it and I stock up on new lumber when I find it discounted. And do a lot of repurposing when I can.

And I find that almost every tool and everything I need to build anything is gone. $12-15K wortk of my tools and materials are gone stolen, sold, or given away in the two days I was doing my hard time. Everything I needed to succeed at building anything….Gone! Everything!!

Apparently my manager of my shop unlocked the door for the ex fiance and her ex boyfriend to come on in. She decided I was going to lose it all in my eviction during my time locked up. I hadn’t even gotten the sheriffs letter of eviction yet which gives an exact date. So she took and sold what she could after letting her ex take everything he wanted. He wanted a lot.,

So now I’m F****d. I had a shed almost done and two more ordered to do. But no f’ing tools to do them. No even a hammer left. These customers deserved their sheds they put deposits down on and were stoked on getting. So now eviction is guaranteed. This also after manager had my work trailer and new shed I just finished on it towed from our shop parking lot. That would and will be a Self Help eviction suit.

This is pic of shed Koby and I almost had finished right before getting locked out of my shop by illegal eviction. And a couole others I’ve done recently.

Everything I need to succeed at doing what I love to do is gone.

And then few days later the landlord/manager locks me out and emptied what was left of what I had still there which was about $5k worth of lumber and furniture and personal belongings. Even after reaching out and asking for time and telling her I would pay rent until I found something else..and letting her know I would keep her Self help eviction, retaliation, and harassment out of it…she did it anyways..,,and didn’t store a single f’ing think of mine or put it out on curb like legally required to do so and contact me if not going to store it which she did not.

Also I lost my truck and trailer because the ex would not give me the tiltle that is mine with my signature on it so I could get it out of impound after being towed when it broke down on freeway. So no way to go anywhere or get anything done.

And then we got the fiancé and her dad throwing away any and everything of mine that was at the house, the house I was asked to move into two and a half years ago…..Lumber, tools, tool boxes, etc….Another $3-5k of mine gone. That’s not legal either I have found out.

Then two days ago Koby was taken by animal control for, hopefully, only ten days while they make sure he doesn’t have rabies after nipping some dude on the nose that he was playing with. So that’ll cost another $1K to get him back. Having to put him in that stupid little box on their truck when hot as f**k was awful. I cried while giving what could possibly be a hug and bye forever to the dog who’s gotten me through so much over the last six years.

And there’s Taylor whom I’ve seen three times since this sh*t started. The sh*t she was there for and had to see and question WTF is going on? I saw her couple days ago and could tell she wasn’t happy….I asked her if she was mad at dad and her no answer was all I needed. She thinks I did and want this and don’t want to see her…..and thats absolutely f’ing heartbreaking as a father. All I want is her and for her to be happy living a cooler than normal life. One where she can see her dad. She doesn’t deserve this….as I don’t. So I’m going to make it right.

Luckily I have a barely running with no heat and a 5mpg getting 1998 Fleetwood Tioga RV to live in till sh*t gets figured out.

My financial goal is lofty…but it’s just a bit of what I’ve lost and will need to start over with…..a place for RV to live, and a shop to continue doing what I love doing for customers that love what I do…and lawyer bills because I’m going after all those that have wronged us…Tools to start back up…. help with Taylor’s mom and her situation… . and getting Koby back… and most importantly time and a place to be with my daughter and to be the “rad rock and roll dad” she still cutely refers to me as.,,,,And I want to take her to Hawaii first for a daddy daughter break from all this. Although not the smartest on the list…think it’s a needed one.

But absolutely anything helps get us going and getting it right again.

Thank you!