Help the Chandler Family Overcome our Crisis

Hi. My name is Max Chandler. This story is about my wife and our son. When we found out we were expecting back in September of 2023. We were excited. Then came news that he was sitting to low and it could result in a miscarriage. That didn’t happen. But what did was a whole roller coaster of scared and frightened events. Doctors first told us it was placenta prevera. Then it turned it placenta accreta. Those both were manageable. Fast forward to Easter and I get a call from her saying she bleeding. I rushed home. My son is now 27 weeks. “He might be coming mom and dad”. She stayed in the hospital that whole weekend. He never came. But what did happens was she wasn’t able to do much anymore. Then here comes may.. may 13th at 130 am. My wife is screaming at me from the bathroom to wake up. There is a murder scene of blood all over the floor. She’s frozen. We rush to the hospital and we barely made it time. He was born 32.5 weeks. Weight 4 lbs 12oz. He was doing great. The real story is the wife. During her emergency C section/ Hysterectomy, she got an amniotic fluid embolism. She flat lined 17times. Over 50 units of blood and over 100 units of blood bi-products. She was put on an ECMO machine and intubated. It was an emotional train.. by Tuesday May 14th. She accumulated 6 liters of blood in her belly. She had 4 exploratory surgeries looks for her the bleed. Turns out to be raw intestines. During her surgeries they believe the ecmo lines fell on her nerve and is in able to walk. She is bed bound or using a lift put in a wheel chair. I am currently working. During the day. While hey SIL takes care of our 2 girls (both 9). And our almost 3 year old boy and the new addition to the family. Not to mention taking care of my wife’s needs. Like help clean her up from using the bath room. Since she can’t stand. To doing pt. And when I get home from work. I relieve her and it my turn till the next day. That is the life of the Chandler family.