Help Us Give Steve Fair a Proper Farewell

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Otilia Bruck and Megan Harte are organizing this fundraiser.

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Help us Honor James Stephen Fair !

Dear Friends and Family,It is with a heavy heart that I share the news (to those who haven’t heard) of Steve Fair's passing on September 7th, 2024. He was only 44 years old and passed away due to a heart attack. We are not sure about the circumstances of his death just yet, but he knew he had a bad heart for many years. Combined with having severe sleep apnea, his heart just finally gave out. As we navigate through this difficult time, we are reaching out for your support to give Steve the farewell he deserves.

Hi, I’m Megan.

James Stephen Fair is the father to my first born son. A dear friend that I’ve kept for over 25 years, and somebody that always had my back no matter what.

James Stephen Fair,

What can I say about a man who has done so much impacted so many people and was one of the most intelligent man I have ever been so lucky to know.

What I do know what he would want me to say first and foremost as that he is a warrior for God. It is what he wanted. It is what he talked about consistently. He couldn’t wait to fight on the front line for the Lord . Steve was not a perfect man, but he knew he was a sinner and he knew that he needed a savior. I thankfully have been so blessed to remember the time that Steve gave his life over to Christ. It was December 4, 2002 I had just had the scariest emergency section and my mother was there with Stephen and I bringing our son James Gaven into the world. Steve never talked much about God before this, but when he saw his first born son, he knew that there was is a God! and he knew that he would never be the same, although along these 22 years, he has lost his way just like the rest of us. He has found his way back many times and deepen his relationship with Christ and all he wanted to do was share that with everyone he wanted to know his Lord Jesus.

I would not be doing him any justice if I did not speak to his testimony.

Before Steve passed all he wanted to do was talk about his love for God and about how he wanted to fight for him and fight against the evil that had brought him down in the past!

We were supposed to be warriors together. Sadly for me he is up in heaven, interceding, and being a warrior up there while I am down here trying so hardly to do what I can especially to the people that Steve loved the most, and he wanted to share the gospel with.

So here I am not doing justice to Steve’s testimony,

but I’m trying.! He would want you all to know that just like him we are sinners who need to savior and lucky for us. There is a savior that already died for our sins and all you have to do is acknowledge it.

Steve has touched the lives of so many people and just one of them who I would like to have speak next is Tillie, she has been a wonderful support and she has loved Steve and his father and taking care of them both for years. She is truly a wonderful miraculous woman , thank you Tillie for putting this all together. I know Steve is so thankful for all that you continue do and all of us that have come together and will not let Jim (his dad) go un taken care of.

It was his greatest fear to leave his dad here alone.. he is not alone. And never will be. ~

"Hi, my name is Tillie and Steve has been my best friend for 15 years. He was many things to many people, but this is who he was to me. Steve was not only a father to 21-year-old Gaven, and a son to 74-year-old James, but also a loyal friend. He had a unique way about himself that drew people to him. He was loud, funny, sensitive, argumentative, strong, smart, and cute in the little things he would do. He was known by many names, including, “Twinkle Toes”, “Princess Glitter Muffin”, and “A Bad Motherf***er”, which is defined as "a person or thing of a specified kind, especially one that is “formidable” - (inspiring fear or respect through being impressively large, powerful, intense, or capable); remarkable, or impressive in some way."

Steve had jokes and a lot of them. His quick wit could always make you laugh. He was passionate about house music, Star Wars, dancing, and creating music. However, what truly set him apart was his unwavering willingness to help those in need. He would be the first to offer a helping hand, whether offering a place to lay your head at night or helping with car troubles. And if someone ever wronged you, he was the first by your side to make things right, even if it meant putting himself at risk. Even if someone didn't particularly like Steve, chances are he had still helped them in some way. His impact on those around him was lasting and now, we have the opportunity to honor his memory by coming together in a way that reflects his selflessness."~

Our goal is to raise a total of $6,000, which will cover the costs of cremation and the service to celebrate Steve's life. Any additional funds will go towards supporting Gaven, Steve's son, and his father, James (Jim). Steve and James lived together, but now James's future is uncertain. Jim had another Heart attack a week after Steve passed. He is currently in The AZ heart hospital and unfortunately is not a candidate for open heart surgery. He has undergone a a few procedures this week, A PCI included, he was intubated for two days and is slowly recovering. As a diabetic who suffered a stroke a few years ago, James's mobility is compromised, amongst other health issues. We hope to raise enough to cover at least 1 or 2 months' rent and utilities until we can figure out the next steps for him.

We understand that not everyone may be able to contribute financially, but your thoughts, prayers, and sharing of this campaign are equally appreciated. Every little bit helps, and together, we can ensure that Steve's memory lives on.

Steve was a father, a son, and my best friend.

I Awe you, Steven."~

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Steve’s friend Mindy, just so happened to fall into the situation and didn’t leave. Most people would have left and Mindy stayed with Jim and has done everything she possibly can to help and we are so grateful for her!

Travis has stood by Steve’s side for many years and also making sure that Jim is also going to be taken care of. Travis, I have never seen a friendship or love like yours for "Stephen" (is how his late mother Christine would address him). Thank you so much.

Jeff and Barbara Baker, (True Family, Steve had Jeff tattoo this on his body to show the bond they all shared, thicker than blood) We love you!

We are so grateful for the people that have been praying for us, & that I’ve been praying for the people that Steve loves and don’t know the Lord we thank you. We can’t do this alone. It’s going to take an army. God‘s army!

Believe that he has shown up in so many ways, undeniable ways. Please help us be a be the reason there’s a miracle and Jim’s life. And all the lives around Steve to the kid that he has, to the ones he’s helped grow. And also to the daughter that didn’t get to know how wonderful her father truly was.

(Shawnee my heart goes out to you and your daughter!)

With the deepest parts of my ❤️,

love you always , Megaladon~ Megan Harte