Help Us Give Steve Fair a Proper Farewell

Help Us Honor Steve Fair

Dear Friends and Family,

It is with a heavy heart that I share the news (to those who haven’t heard) of Steve Fair's passing on September 7th, 2024. He was only 44 years old and passed away due to a heart attack. We are not sure about the circumstances of his death just yet, but he knew he had a bad heart for many years. Combined with having severe sleep apnea, his heart just finally gave out. As we navigate through this difficult time, we are reaching out for your support to give Steve the farewell he deserves.

Hi, my name is Tillie and Steve has been my best friend for 15 years. He was many things to many people, but this is who he was to me. Steve was not only a father to 21-year-old Gaven, and a son to 74-year-old James, but also a loyal friend. He had a unique way about himself that drew people to him. He was loud, funny, sensitive, argumentative, strong, smart, and cute in the little things he would do. He was known by many names, including, “Twinkle Toes”, “Princess Glitter Muffin”, and “A Bad Motherf***er”, which is defined as "a person or thing of a specified kind, especially one that is “formidable” - (inspiring fear or respect through being impressively large, powerful, intense, or capable); remarkable, or impressive in some way."

Steve had jokes and a lot of them. His quick wit could always make you laugh. He was passionate about house music, Star Wars, dancing, and creating music. However, what truly set him apart was his unwavering willingness to help those in need. He would be the first to offer a helping hand, whether offering a place to lay your head at night or helping with car troubles. And if someone ever wronged you, he was the first by your side to make things right, even if it meant putting himself at risk. Even if someone didn't particularly like Steve, chances are he had still helped them in some way. His impact on those around him was lasting and now, we have the opportunity to honor his memory by coming together in a way that reflects his selflessness.

Our goal is to raise a total of $6,000, which will cover the costs of cremation and the service to celebrate Steve's life. Any additional funds will go towards supporting Gaven, Steve's son, and his father, James. Steve and James lived together, but now James's future is uncertain. As a diabetic who suffered a stroke a few years ago, James's mobility is compromised, amongst other health issues. We hope to raise enough to cover at least 1 or 2 months' rent and utilities until we can figure out the next steps for him.

We understand that not everyone may be able to contribute financially, but your thoughts, prayers, and sharing of this campaign are equally appreciated. Every little bit helps, and together, we can ensure that Steve's memory lives on.

Steve was a father, a son, and my best friend.

I Awe you, Steven.