Help Vera and Carrie with Car Accident

Hi, I'm Carrie Celeste aka Purity Filter. Recently on the way to move in with my fiancee we got into a really awful accident that totaled the car that we were using to move into her place in Colorado. Currently our plan is to fly all of my belongings out to her place which would be really expensive but we are both too young to rent a rental car for the move. Also we recieved a citation for the accident among other things which we cannot afford to pay at all. There are so many moving parts and I have no idea what the total cost of everything will be and it was a very traumatic experience for the both of us and I don't know what other options we have. Thank you <3

Carrie