Husband, father, veteran in need of help

Hi my name is Dwane and this hurts me badly to do this. I am an active duty military member, a husband, and a father. Long story short I took a position in a new unit and with that came a cut in my monthly pay due to location. During the same time my wife who worked in healthcare got sick and had to leave work. With all that we fell behind in bills and the last thing we want to do is leave our home and move my children to new schools. My wife was in healthcare for the past 5 years working throughout Covid, even while I was deployed she always found a way to keep the kids in order, the house maintained and work. I personally feel like a failure as a husband and father that we are in this situation, and I am one who NEVER asks for help especially when it comes to money. If this reaches you and you are able to assist my family I would be forever grateful, I understand times are tough on everyone and prices of everything are crazy, so if you see this and can’t help it’s understandable. Also I am weary of these things so please know this is not some kind of scam, I truly am desperate to be able to keep a roof over my families head, they are my everything. Thank you for taking the time to consider this. I promise to pay this forward one day!!!