I need help leaving a very unhealthy situation.

Hi, I'm the Herb Guy (Tracy) and I'm in a bit of a pickle. I've been in an abusive relationship for more than 8 years. I have tried to stay where I am and make everything work, but unfortunately, it isn't possible. I currently live in a house with my soon-to-be exwife and I really need your help to leave.

The two of us currently live in a 5 bedroom home, and I am relegated to sleeping on the couch. I can't get any sleep, I have no privacy or peace and I am at her whim for when I can sleep, wake up, rest or even spend my time in the house. This is becoming extremely unhealthy and I am beginning to show physical signs of the abuse.

I hate to ask anyone for help, but I don't have any options. I have no family, have been alienated from my friends and am constantly being spied on, berated, inulted and gaslit from my "partner".

I have nothing, but this will help me get in the door of a new home. I have the approval for the loan, the house picked out, but not quite enough to get in. If anyone canhelp me, I would be more grateful than words can express. This situation is exhausting and I can't stay here much longer and expect a healthy life....