IVF Wolfe Baby

Devin and I have been trying to get pregnant. We have been trying for 2 and half years. We started trying before we were engaged because we both wanted a child and knew we would be together. Yesterday we got some devastating news. We have been working with an infertility clinic in Iowa for year and half. We have done 4 failed IUI and of course, insurance does not pay for anything so been all out of pocket. We decided to get a second option because we were not happy with the answer of doing 3 more iuis. We went to St louis area to a second doctor. He was shocked and disappointed in what the Iowa clinic sent our results. This whole time we were told it was a male factor and that I had a low egg count. So, for the last year and half we have been trying to deal with male side not thinking there was any other issues because we were never told differently. This new doctor said no my eggs are the issue not him. My egg count shows the level of a 47-year-old. This news was so heartbreaking to hear. 18 months of heart break, pain, tears, feeling like not good enough for a child, the doctor said we should have gone straight to IVF and never did IUI because they would never work. We are out 4,000 dollars, so much pain, false hope, trusting in doctors, and so much more.

We have decided to do IVF because we want a child. . So, if you would like to help with this, please do so. Anything would help us as we are paying out of pocket. It has been an emotional roller coaster and will continue to be. We have kept most of this private and personal, but we can no longer do this since we must take significant actions to have a baby. We wanted to have the surprise we are pregnant moment, and everyone be shocked and happy, I know we will still have this moment, but it will not be the same as natural. Everything will work out just the more challenging way.

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