Jacob Israels funeral donations
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on may 10th, 2023, my brother was victim of a horrible accident. when paramedics arrived on seen he wasnt breathing with no heart beat. they were able to get his heart pumping again, and immeditaly gave him oxygen, he was then taken to the i.c.u., where they took care of him, and when the time was right, ruduced the medicine that was keeping him sedated. he immediatly started havin seziures that were so violent it took 4 medacations to stop his body from reacting to the seziures. my poor mother had no idea what was happening . she was out of state visiting her father, and my sister and i only told her she needed to come home now that our brother was in the hospital. mom got to the hospital 14 hours after he was admittemd, i held her hand as i walked her in to the room where her only son was on life support, and watched as she collasped with devestation. the tears wernet even dried on my mothers face before the doctor came in and coldly told her that my brothers brain damage was so severe, that there was no chance at survivlal.
my mother could not believe in this. how can it be that the doctors are telling her that SHE IS THE ONE WHO DECIDEDS, whether to have hope, faith and believe that her son was in there fighting? her decicion? how can a mother make that decicision? day in and day out the doctors told her the same thing. my sister and i stood by my mom to support her, knowing what needed to be done, and devestated to see both my mom, and my brother suffering.. CRAZY THING IS. my brother had big plans for my mom this mothers day.. ond on mothers day, may 14th 2023, my brother choose to leave this world and free my mom from having to make that choice.. (believe in sience? or have faith?)
i feel as if that was my brother telling my mom that he was at peace, and he woulnt have her sitting in the hospital, on mothers day. that was the only way he could communicate to her, that he was at peace, and it was his time. he even waited untill she was out of the room, and down the hall, so she wouldnt have to wittness it..
my brother was the best. funny, kind, handsome, and selfless. he was many peoples best friend, just last month in april, his house caught on fire and he lost everything. the fire even entered into the nextdoor houe, and the landlord displaced them with no resources, and although my brother just lost everything, still gave them whatever money he had in his account to help.
he worked hard to get back on his feet, and we were all proud of him. he was a protector, a leader, and my bestfriend.
we need help to provide him with the services he deserves. my mother is broken, and i am asking anyone who reads this, please help us . this is the first time i ever arranged services, and my mother never has. i hope she never will because parents are not supposed to burry their cildren.
Organizer
Sara Harlan
Organizer
Phoenix, AZ