James A. Moore Final Wishes and Memorial Expenses
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This is hard to do. Jim would've hated it. He received so much help from so many of you over the past five years, through cancer and Covid and surgeries and job loss and housing loss and amputation. We did two major GoFundMe campaigns during that time. Over the past year, there were moments we talked about doing a third one, but Jim hated the idea of asking again, no matter how much trouble he was in. Sympathy fatigue is real, and so many other people needed help, too.
Jim is going to be cremated. The expense for that is nothing compared to a funeral and a casket and a burial plot, but it's still costly. I also want to be able to gather everyone together to have a Celebration of Life in a way that honors him. If we could wait a few months, we could risk doing it outside, but I know that everyone is feeling raw and would like to do it sooner. I'd like to do it on a Saturday or Sunday in April.
I've set the goal of this GFM to $6K to pay for both his cremation (and associated expenses) and the memorial gathering. I'm not sure it will be enough, but we'll see. PLEASE NOTE that any monies received over and above the costs of those two things will be given directly to Jim's wife, Tessa, to help her as she sorts out her next steps. These years have been hard enough, and we'd like to do all we can to help at this time.
In Jim's memory, and on his behalf, I thank you, whether for a few dollars or just for your kind thoughts of him. Thank you, thank you. And, as Jim would say, "Keep Smiling."
(For clarity--donations are coming directly to me. I'll be paying cremation and related expenses with it, as well as for the Celebration of Life event. All other monies will be transferred directly from me to Tessa, using Zelle, directly into her bank account.)
Organizer
Christopher Golden
Organizer
Haverhill, MA