Headstones for my babies

The time has come to think about getting headstones for our boy but because we need 2 it’s going to cost £5000 pound which is so much to find no one should have to be buying a head stone for a child let alone 2 we lost our first little boy in 2019 we found out at 20 weeks our first son had a severe heart defeat and would need an operation at birth to survive but tragically I went into premature labour at 27weeks and they deemed him unopable and withdrew care because he had no chance of survival then we fell pregnant again to another beautiful baby boy our Shea in 2020 after expressing my concerns about going into early labour again and being ignored I went into early labour again at 25weeks Shea was a healthy boy and was doing really well in nicu but he took a turn for the worse 8 days later and went into cardiac arrest and we lost him I’ve since found out we lost our boys due to a undiagnosed condition called incompetent cervix and if the hospital listened to me Shea would still be alive because I should of had a cervical stitch like I said to my consultant I’ve since gone on to have a beautiful baby girl thanks to a cervical stitch and now looking to complete our boys resting place and give them headstones like they deserve but £5000 pounds is so much money to find so just asking for a little help I hate to ask because life is so expensive as it is but £5000 pounds is a lot of money to find on our own