My Very Large Fibroids & Hysterectomy operation

Hi I’m Tracey I’ve spent quite a bit of my life helping others but now I’m in need of your help. Im not one for asking but I have been waiting for this operation now for 4 years and the longer it goes on the bigger the fibroids are getting, these are very painful. I was due to have the operation 4 years ago then covid happened so it was put back. Now there is a back log and it’s been put back again. ..work has become super quiet hence why I am posting this. Since having fibroids they have grown in such a short time, they went from the size of a grape to the size of a grapefruit. My stomach has swollen also because my uterus is double the size making me look like I’m 6 months pregnant so you can imagine the problem it is causing to my bladder. Not being able hold it in when I’m needing the loo is very embarrassing, the pressure has caused me to have lower back pain plus pain in my legs & feet. When walking, the pressure causes my leg to go numb. All of this is making me truly unhappy, i’m trying to remain positive as much as possible. This operation can’t be done internally or key hole because of the size of the fibroids so it will be a big operation. This is not like me to ask others for help so all donations will be greatly appreciated.