We are asking for any donations big or small, Our Dad, Brother, Partner and Friend is missing, the police have exhausted all resources in a bid to find him for the second time after he left his home alone again, this time without a word, phone or key.


He left his home in Tunbridge Wells on foot between 2-3pm on Thursday 28th May 2020 and has not be heard or seen since.


After disappearing 3 weeks ago leaving behind tragic goodbye notes to his loved ones, we realised Paul was not in a good state of mind and was struggling emotionally, with the stress of lockdown and coronavirus, being self employed and out of work things have all got too much.


The search continues for Paul and we will NEVER give up looking for him, time is of the essence as he is out alone, without food, water and only a T-shirt on his back, he needs to be found as soon as possible to get him home and get him the help he needs to get back to his healthy self.     


Search and rescue and the police of Kent and Sussex after all their efforts are at a loss of where to search next and this is where your help will be so greatly appreciated, we need financial support for things such as information rewards, after care and social media advertising, we need for our dads picture, name and information regarding our search to be among the media and news every day, spread far and wide until he is found, we will not see him slip beneath the radar.


When our prayers are answered and we find him, if any remaining monies donated are left over, this money will be well used in finding him the private help he desperately needs for his care after this trauma he’s been through, having being so stretched due to the coronavirus, we fear the wait for NHS care will be just too long to wait for, after being sent home so soon last time. Regrettably if our worst fears are true, the money will be split between Sussex Search and Rescue the mental health charity MIND to help other people that may be in this horrible situation.


Dad is usually so full of life, always helping where he can, involving himself among the community, often meeting new people on radio and Facebook groups and is always there to pick people up when they are in need, he loves his children and grandchildren unconditionally as they do him, his funny caring beautiful character is one in which we need to restore him with as he has touched the lives of so many with his wit and love throughout his life and we cannot  begin to imagine our lives without him, he needs our love, help and a little time to find the light in him again, and we are desperate to give him all three.


Thank-you so very much for taking the time to read our plea, all donations will be so appreciated as has everyone’s support been so far. 

If you do see Paul please do not hesitate to call 999 or contact one of us and if you can, keep him in sight until someone comes to meet him, either us or the police, he is of no danger to anyone other than himself. We believe he is wearing beige trousers. He’s been missing for almost two weeks so will most probably have a bit of stubble/beard by now. Thankyou again.




 •LOVE CONQUERS ALL•