Monica's Plea: Aid for Her Sons' Crisis "A Mother's Love"

Update: 6/30/24

June 12th 2024, we lost Matthew Dakota Crowder (Koda) due to a drowning (accidental) in Mount Shasta, California, He left this world to be the angel welcoming in his little brother with open arms to the spiritual journey to the next world, Jeremy Lee Crowder (JJ), who left us June, 25th 2024. Losing the battle for his life due to a gunshot wound (murder). His Mother Monica laid her head on his chest hearing his last heart beat in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

Funeral arrangements are still being made. Cremation, For both brothers has been arranged with a small balance remaining.

To everyone who has donated, we greatly appreciate your help. It has gone a long way to To help the boys be laid to rest and to find their peace. Finances have been used for travel to and from oklahoma while Jeremy was fighting for his life. The next step is to get Matthew home to Oklahoma, so we can do a celebration of life for both brothers, together with family in attendance, saying Our final farewell. We are hoping to have the service for them within the next 3 weeks. So we are still needing help to finish the funeral arrangements in Oklahoma. Urns for them. Reception of family and friends to come together to say "See in the next life" not a " Good-bye"

Once everything is completed.

We still have travel expenses to take care of to get to and from Oklahoma, along with lodging and finalization for anything debt for their bills. So still any help is greatly appreciated.

Original post:

A Mother's Love Request

I am Monica Crowder, mother of 5 from Albuquerque, New Mexico.

On June 10th 2024, the phone rings a call from Tulsa. Oklahoma informing me my 23-year-old son, Jeremy Crowder also known as JJ was shot (with intent). My son is currently at the hospital I.C.U in critical condition.

On June 12th, 2024 the phone rings again a call from Mount Shasta, California informing me my 26 year old son, Matthew Dakota Crowder has drowned to his death at Lake Siskiyou.

My dear God, I know you need angels and you have Dakota (Matthew) with you.

I pray spare the life of my son, JJ (Jeremy) As I need him in my life beside me stand his son and his baby on the way and his youngest siblings.

As a mother, I asked for monetary donations of any amount to help lay my son, Dakota, to rest and to help me travel to Oklahoma to be at my son, JJ's bedside.

I Thank You for your support.

A mother's love Monica.

Gas from NM to California and back

Lodging while in California making funeral arrangements for Dakota

Storage fee's for Dakota personal property

Gas from NM to Oklahoma and back

Lodging while in Oklahoma

Assist with medical treatment