Nanny Nibbles Crematorium
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Hi my name is paige and I am the daughter of navida. I am trying to raise funds for my mums cremation. So recently she was in QMC hospital, which took a long time to get her in due to her agoraphobia and anxiety. She originally went in for a gangrenius toe and had her toe amputated. Further infections/complications came along so she had to have a Ventricular Bypass to clear the blockage. Unfortunately this didn't work, so they tried another way by going through the groinal area and placing a stent there. This was also unsuccessful which meant her blood was clotting around the body and in the main vein in the skull. She was then reffered to Liasion Team due to mental health worsening. She was on ward E16 and they never took acknowledge of her even when she was feeling these mental breakdowns fluctuating. Causing her to mentally break down and harm herself. They left her with open wounds for hours on end, constantly telling her she wasn't having food or drinks and showing the lowest of lowest of care for a patient. She then started expressing she was feeling suicidal and hallucinating asking for the tunnel of light. But her SHRIMP Summary says "there were no safety concerns" Whilst going through the major ops and trauma she decided to rip her bandage and stitches of near her groinal area. Then ended up having a panick attack and lost large amounts of blood within seconds. A nurse then had to jump on her put pressure on her leg to stop it from bleeding and rush her down to Theatre. Then she ended up being moved to Adult Intensive Care Unit (AICU) on oxygen to help her breath. She then, was struggling to come out of recovery mode and was less aware of the surroundings and the sound of my voice. And constantly dosing her up with morphine every 3 hours. Which at that point they knew she was deteriorating and her body couldn't handle it. Multiple nurses and doctors kept telling us different things that she's gonna make it n be paralysed but had to go do further CT Scans again to then notice how far gone it was and they couldn't give her any treatment for it.
From then, I knew something wasn't right. There was a huge amount of White Blood Cells falling out when bloods are being taken. clogging up and causing more blockage and damage. And more deterioration kept ongoing and ongoing. She was starting to look a lot better and they decided to take her for a operation to prolong her life but didn't inform her Carer/Next Of Kin(me) We also had, multiple nurses walking from one side room to another in the same scrubs/apron which surely has something that relates to infection control and diseases. They even go against their own policy chewing gum around the bays and wearing footwear like Crocs. The level of disrespectfulness is really high. They left her for days and days on end with no care or treatment. Not even a chat. Basically just left her to rot away in silence. A couple days later, she sadly passed away on the 1st September 2024 at 5:05AM. We also had to get a Coroner involved, due to the operation to try prolong her life which they went behind their own policy and didn't come and tell me. Which was illeagal.
Previously, before she came to hospital she mentioned that she wanted to be cremated, so she can be with her babies and mum and dad. So, I will try my best to make sure she has the best day and gets what she wants.
I never normally do anything like this, But I'm struggling mentally and financially and need as much support from everyone as I can. I have been told i need £1,000 deposit by the 17th September 2024 the latest and then, a further £4,995 for her cremations.
Any donations no matter how small or big. It's all very much appreciated. Let's all do this together.
Can you help me get me my mum back to her safe zone what she called "home".
so her ashes can come back to me.. any help would be much appreciated.
Thankyou for taking your time and patience for taking a moment and donating.
Ps. These costs will go toward giving my mum the best sendof she deserves
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Paige Carlisle
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