Help with Corinne's Final Wish
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Help Corinne get to the Vatican.
Hello,
My name is Darren and I have started this campaign in an effort to enable my sister Corinne to visit the Vatican before she is no longer able to travel.
From birth my sister has a complex congenital heart disorder which would have required a dual transplant of heart and lungs to resolve. The time where this was a viable solution has now passed and there are increasing neurological complications. By even the most generous estimate she has no longer that 5-12 months left.
Though devastated, she has faced this with their trademark gallows humour and unshakable faith. She has expressed a desire to visit the Vatican before it’s too late as, her faith is a strong focus for her. I want more than anything to be able to make this happen for her, but my family simply does not have the means.
Corinne took a great deal of persuading to allow me to pursue this avenue of help as she is a private and unassuming person who dislikes attention. However, we have convinced her that this is the only way for Corinne to achieve her final wish.
By our calculations we originally needed a figure of around £14,500 ($22,500 or €20,300). Since Corinne's husband removed himself from the campaign it has now been revised down to £12,000 of which roughly £3,000 to £5,000 is for the medical insurance required for someone in her condition. All travel would be via train, with multiple stops, as she can no longer fly.
What follows are Corinne’s own words
“I was born with a congenital heart defect and my parents were told I had less than a week to live. That was forty-two years ago and while it has made everything I decide to do harder it has never stopped me, just slowed me down, that is until recently.
I was on the Heart and Lung transplant list for 17 years, from my late teens to my mid thirties, but no organs became available. This was largely due to the fact that with both a heart and lungs two lives could be saved rather than one. It is now long since past the point where I would survive the operation even if it was an option.
While on the transplant list I sat my Highers (against the school’s advice as they thought the stress would potentially kill me) and continued to study at college and then at University. The life long learning courses at Edinburgh University is where I found my love of Egyptology and Church History. I ultimately applied to Glasgow University and got into their Bachelor of Divinity course via distance learning. It was a significant effort for me to keep focused but I finally graduated with my BD in 2008 and was awarded the Archibald Main prize that same year by the University Senate.
I married my husband in 2011 and began my Masters course, again with Glasgow University, but regrettably had to stop due to a dramatic drop in my health which resulted in entering third stage heart failure and gaining some neurological damage.
I was told in October 2014 that I have anything from 6-18 months left though in truth I knew the direction this was heading in, it was still devastating to hear the words spoken out loud and heartbreaking to have to repeat it to my family.
Since receiving the estimates of how long I have left I have been trying to get everything into order and to experience more of the world. Though by no means well off I have been able to have small trips around Scotland and the north of England. The idea of visiting the Vatican however has never left me. Rome to me is an adventure of the historical and cultural aspects of Christianity, spiritual and a historical journey.
Vatican city is the home of the Catholic Church, it houses the Vatican secret archives. Paintings by Michaelangelo one of the most famous artists of the renaissance. The church also has the Forbidden Index which I personally would love to see, as the best theologians of the reformation are named in this document for their heretical theological publications, which I have studied. The spiritual part is simply a pilgrimage or visit to the holy land of the Catholic Church.
So today I need to swallow my pride and ask for your help to make this wish come true. When I die I have to leave the man I love behind but I don’t want to go without seeing the most holy site.
Thank you.
Corinne Barber
Questions
Are you real people/Is this true?
Yes, my Facebook page is linked to the campaign and Corinne’s is HERE . The very first thing we will do is share it though that medium. I’m making myself fully available and open to answer any questions you may about this, Corinne or myself.
The amount is quite large for a holiday
First, it’s more of a pilgrimage than a holiday and it is currently envisaged to take at least three weeks due to Corinne’s condition. Second this is an ESTIMATE. Due to not knowing when exactly Corinne can travel we have ball parked the number somewhat. We are constantly revising the number in the background so as to not ask for any more than is needed
What will go to Corinne ?
Everything minus fees for this funding platform together with any card/bank fees. No-one other than Corinne is getting a “cut”.
What would be done with any money above that total?
Let’s not count our chickens... in that unlikely event the first thing that would happen is that we would upgrade the various modes of transport and accommodation. There are also few things her siblings are suggesting like a “Lessons from Corinne” book that can share her advice, life and lifestyle with her nieces and nephews... such as the horrific way she eats choc-ices, it has to be seen to be believed.
Really though if there are any funds above those needed for the trip it would be used by Corinne to have any experience they would like to have.
Whether you donate or not I want to thank you for taking the time to read this.
Best wishes
Darren Barber
Hello,
My name is Darren and I have started this campaign in an effort to enable my sister Corinne to visit the Vatican before she is no longer able to travel.
From birth my sister has a complex congenital heart disorder which would have required a dual transplant of heart and lungs to resolve. The time where this was a viable solution has now passed and there are increasing neurological complications. By even the most generous estimate she has no longer that 5-12 months left.
Though devastated, she has faced this with their trademark gallows humour and unshakable faith. She has expressed a desire to visit the Vatican before it’s too late as, her faith is a strong focus for her. I want more than anything to be able to make this happen for her, but my family simply does not have the means.
Corinne took a great deal of persuading to allow me to pursue this avenue of help as she is a private and unassuming person who dislikes attention. However, we have convinced her that this is the only way for Corinne to achieve her final wish.
By our calculations we originally needed a figure of around £14,500 ($22,500 or €20,300). Since Corinne's husband removed himself from the campaign it has now been revised down to £12,000 of which roughly £3,000 to £5,000 is for the medical insurance required for someone in her condition. All travel would be via train, with multiple stops, as she can no longer fly.
What follows are Corinne’s own words
“I was born with a congenital heart defect and my parents were told I had less than a week to live. That was forty-two years ago and while it has made everything I decide to do harder it has never stopped me, just slowed me down, that is until recently.
I was on the Heart and Lung transplant list for 17 years, from my late teens to my mid thirties, but no organs became available. This was largely due to the fact that with both a heart and lungs two lives could be saved rather than one. It is now long since past the point where I would survive the operation even if it was an option.
While on the transplant list I sat my Highers (against the school’s advice as they thought the stress would potentially kill me) and continued to study at college and then at University. The life long learning courses at Edinburgh University is where I found my love of Egyptology and Church History. I ultimately applied to Glasgow University and got into their Bachelor of Divinity course via distance learning. It was a significant effort for me to keep focused but I finally graduated with my BD in 2008 and was awarded the Archibald Main prize that same year by the University Senate.
I married my husband in 2011 and began my Masters course, again with Glasgow University, but regrettably had to stop due to a dramatic drop in my health which resulted in entering third stage heart failure and gaining some neurological damage.
I was told in October 2014 that I have anything from 6-18 months left though in truth I knew the direction this was heading in, it was still devastating to hear the words spoken out loud and heartbreaking to have to repeat it to my family.
Since receiving the estimates of how long I have left I have been trying to get everything into order and to experience more of the world. Though by no means well off I have been able to have small trips around Scotland and the north of England. The idea of visiting the Vatican however has never left me. Rome to me is an adventure of the historical and cultural aspects of Christianity, spiritual and a historical journey.
Vatican city is the home of the Catholic Church, it houses the Vatican secret archives. Paintings by Michaelangelo one of the most famous artists of the renaissance. The church also has the Forbidden Index which I personally would love to see, as the best theologians of the reformation are named in this document for their heretical theological publications, which I have studied. The spiritual part is simply a pilgrimage or visit to the holy land of the Catholic Church.
So today I need to swallow my pride and ask for your help to make this wish come true. When I die I have to leave the man I love behind but I don’t want to go without seeing the most holy site.
Thank you.
Corinne Barber
Questions
Are you real people/Is this true?
Yes, my Facebook page is linked to the campaign and Corinne’s is HERE . The very first thing we will do is share it though that medium. I’m making myself fully available and open to answer any questions you may about this, Corinne or myself.
The amount is quite large for a holiday
First, it’s more of a pilgrimage than a holiday and it is currently envisaged to take at least three weeks due to Corinne’s condition. Second this is an ESTIMATE. Due to not knowing when exactly Corinne can travel we have ball parked the number somewhat. We are constantly revising the number in the background so as to not ask for any more than is needed
What will go to Corinne ?
Everything minus fees for this funding platform together with any card/bank fees. No-one other than Corinne is getting a “cut”.
What would be done with any money above that total?
Let’s not count our chickens... in that unlikely event the first thing that would happen is that we would upgrade the various modes of transport and accommodation. There are also few things her siblings are suggesting like a “Lessons from Corinne” book that can share her advice, life and lifestyle with her nieces and nephews... such as the horrific way she eats choc-ices, it has to be seen to be believed.
Really though if there are any funds above those needed for the trip it would be used by Corinne to have any experience they would like to have.
Whether you donate or not I want to thank you for taking the time to read this.
Best wishes
Darren Barber
Organizer
Darren Barber
Organizer