Paying bills after losing huband

My name is Diane. I lost my husband 2 years ago and after losing him spent a year spiraling downwards and made really bad decisions. I was scammed out of thousands of dollars being a widow and that was my fault being lonely and stupid.. I have spent the last 2 years trying to fix all my financial issues but am about to lose my house, car, utilities, water etc. I am on disability but have gotten a part time job to try to catch bills up I have tried to get loan but can't get anyone to cosign for me so now my only option is to ask for help from anyone and everyone. Believe me when I say this will create drama from family, but saving the house my husband bought for me prior to dying is more important to me than getting nasty messages from siblings who still have their spouses!