Please help me stop my self from losing everything

I'm Josh I'm 37, and I got out of a very serious 4 year relationship recently, and things haven't been good for me since then. I've struggled as a single individual trying to make ends meet. I ended up taking out a loan to help with this, little did I know the interest rates ate me alive. Now all the money I make from my job goes back into it. I see nothing of my check. I just want to be able to get out from underneath the yoke I have around my neck, and make it another 2 weeks with a roof over my head for my cat, and myself. I hate asking for help, but damn I could use some right now.