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Please help my dear friend recover & thrive

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Hey everyone, my name is Nicole. This holiday season I've been very fortunate to cross paths and become very close to a wonderful family that has found themselves in a difficult situation. Over the past year, my friend Catherine had to leave her husband and child multiple times, for extended periods of time, to travel from FL to AZ to care for her ailing father, Ira Rogoff, as he had fallen ill and needed her by his side. Levi stayed home with their son, Lennon (now 11 years old) while she traveled to Arizona to help her father with making decisions while in the hospital, preparing for discharge to home and helping to secure care. She found herself away from home for longer and longer after her dad had come home because he could no longer take care of himself, at all.
During this time Catherine had to give up her job and with their expenses skyrocketing, they soon found themselves struggling. Even with donations from generous friends & family, the cost was astronomical. They continued to dedicate themselves to caring & advocating for Ira. Their priorities were clear and they made a difficult choice that I personally find incredible, given the circumstances. They made plans to move permanently to Arizona. They uprooted their lives to move over 2,000 miles, despite the many obstacles, with the only purpose being giving Ira the best quality of life possible. 
Ira used to work in homecare, as an RN, fighting to keep families together instead of having loved ones go into hospice care in subpar facilities. Because he fell ill, he hasn't been able to work and his insurance covers only so much of his medical expenses. For example, Ira needs a new glucose pump/meter combo that has a $2000 co-pay. This device/system is necessary for him to get the proper amount of insulin injected into his body to control his diabetes. I could mention many other expenses but you get the idea.
 Catherine had previously been driving for Uber in Florida but has now been placed on hold until her background updates in Arizona after the holiday season. This came as a shocking blow to them, as they were depending on using that income to support themselves until Levi could find appropriate gainful employment. They have been taking turns caring for Ira, ensuring his dignity, safety and comfort. This is a full time job, in and of itself, without any pay, at this time. Catherine has spent much time, using as many resources as possible, to help them get through, hoping that eventually they will be approved as paid family caregivers for her father. Levi has applied to many positions but has not found anything that offers the kind of income that would balance out the loss of his assistance at home. They've both found themselves "working" many more hours than a full time job would require each week, to care for their family and keep things together, as best they can. 
I've sat with Catherine as she despairs over the rising cost of living, the endless co-pays and her feelings of inadequacy. She suffered with a massive infection just days after moving to Arizona. Having no insurance she had to scramble to get covered. This exacerbated the infection & (to top it off) the first two rounds of antibiotics (that she paid for at full price) were the wrong types, leaving her sick for well over 3 weeks. Levi was then left caring for their child, her father and her. He held things together but had to take that entire time off of his job hunt, setting them back almost a month. However, you would never hear either of them say they wouldn't have made this choice over again if given the opportunity. They remain steadfast in their desire to give Ira the best life possible and I am amazed at the love I see in all of them. 
I must tell you, I find this family to be so dedicated, so kind to one another and so genuine. They have shown me many kindnesses as well, even with their own problems pressing upon them. They are doing all they can to stay afloat. With the holiday season and Ira's continuous medical expenses, it's become more of a challenge to stay afloat and their bills have accumulated in such a way to cause terrible stress. Please help this family to get back on track and ahead so they can look towards the future and back to better days.
If you are able to give to anyone this holiday season, please give to them. Show them that their community cares and is behind them in their quest to provide dignified care to their loved one and supports them while they attempt to find stability during this period of transition and recovery. Imagine them not able to buy Christmas gifts for their child after giving up the life they were living in Florida to help an aging parent and put yourself in that position. We would all hope for our community to surround us with love and support at this time. 
Thank you for stopping to read about my friends. I hope you're all blessed and healthy this coming year and I hope you will join me in giving to the people that need it most. 
Xo
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Donations 

  • Guy Haney
    • $25
    • 10 mos
  • Katrine HUGHES
    • $100
    • 1 yr
  • mark McDonald
    • $100
    • 1 yr
  • Kyle Wetmore
    • $50
    • 1 yr
  • Mark Haywood
    • $100
    • 1 yr
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Organizer and beneficiary

Nicole Consaul
Organizer
Tucson, AZ
Ira Rogoff
Beneficiary

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