Please help the Holmes family

Hi I'm Rob, this is my wife Lauren and our two little boys, Finn (3) and Levi (20 months). They are my world.

Three months ago I was diagnosed with a rare type of bone cancer in my left leg (the doctors call it chondrosarcoma). It has left me unable to work, walk unaided or financially provide or care for my little family. The operation to save my leg is extraordinary but it is going to leave me needing care from my wife and unable to work for at least 12 months.

Not long ago I was high on life, fit, healthy and a sole provider for my young family. Lauren is on unpaid maternity leave raising our two boys and was due to return to work this year.

Being self-employed, I have searched and so far found financial and carer support is limited or not available through government or industry for our situation and age bracket.

Since my diagnosis I was put on a bone donor transplant list and at Christmas I finally received the amazing news that a donor became available. At the end of January this year I will have an operation to remove the tumour and large portion of my lower tibia and receive a new bone. I am so grateful to my surgeon for attempting this option. The alternative I was given of amputation with two young boys to raise is inconceivable to me.

Now comes the really tough part: I am embarrassed, ashamed and asking for your help to help my family get through this. I am starting this fundraiser to help support the ongoing medical and rehabilitation costs we face over the next 12 months, and the living cost for my family while we work through this extremely challenging time. Any and all donations will help me and my family get by and remain happy and healthy!

Any money left once we are back as a functional family will be passed on to someone else who is in need or a worthy charity. If you can please help with as much or as little as you can, everything will help. From my family we thank you with all our hearts.