help fund my dad's funeral

Hello everybody, here I am again. My dad passed away on the 13th of July due to a car accident, and although my relationship with him has been very rocky, I love him. In the years he took care of me on his own, he really changed and became a better person. The urn we want to buy him is 750 euros alone, the

funeral care that was recommended to us starts at 4500 euros and we were thinking of inviting people over for dinner to share memories and have a drink in honor of my dad. We can't afford those groceries like it's nothing, but I already feel bad enough about asking money.