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The most justified divorce ever.

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I had 24 days left in my second marriage. I was going to get my default judgment. I was 2 days away.

I am getting divorced because last June 24th my whole world collapsed. I found out that the man I kissed goodbye that morning was not a man at all, but a monster. With one innocent question over a Wendy's hamburger our entire life as we knew it was over. 
In just 11 hours I found out what was happening to my daughter, he confessed, and was in jail.  Eleven hours. 

I found out today that that my "husband" is contesting the divorce. He wants holidays and weekends with my younger child. A boy we had together. He wants to make sure my child knows about Jesus. (I guess he feels that he's more qualified in that area.) He feels that the child support is too high.
The divorce will now go to trial. No idea when a trial date will be set much less start. The cost of my divorce will double, best case scenario. He was able to do this by filing one piece of paper. Without a lawyer.
 
I am doing my very best to keep my children in their home and fed and this disgusting human being is threatening that. You see, I have to pay for my divorce. Money that could be better spent on a vacation or a down payment on my house or even a bonfire. His food, board, healthcare, and criminal representation is paid for by you. The taxpayers. While he is in the "care" of the U.S. government he still has rights. And unfortunately he is exercising that right to screw me over yet again. When does the evil stop?

I hate this man. The fact that he is still allowed to breathe after what he has done to my daughter and what he has put my family through boggles my mind. Especially when he has admitted it. When his charges don't even begin to cover the atrocities he committed. He's been sitting in jail for 10 months without even the hint of an indictment. We're all just waiting. Limbo is the worst part. 
My hopefully soon to be ex husband is in jail on multiple counts of a horrific sex crime against my daughter. 

I applied for help with legal aid and was denied.  My lawyer is letting me pay her on a payment plan, but I have no idea how high this bill is going to go. $4000 is a conservative estimate. 

I need out of this "marriage." I need to drop his last name. I need to protect my children from someone that I believe  will reoffend.
I need help.
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Rae Barham
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Collierville, TN

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