Run for a Cure: Honoring Dad's Memory

They say time is precious and I know it’s true. 20 years ago this coming November, I ran out of time with my Dad. Lung cancer took him from me. He was only 50 years old. In the 7 months between his diagnosis and death, I tried to learn and do everything I could to both slow time and save him. Believe me when I tell you, the word devastated hardly explains what I felt, when I couldn’t.

My Dad was unlike anyone I have ever met. He was the best kind of human. He was kinder than most. He epitomized what it meant to be a hard worker. He lived simply and took joy in the small things. He made greatness out of little to nothing. He’d show up for others without expecting anything in return. And his hugs improved your day while his empathy would change your life.

As you may or may not know, I ventured into running as a means to handle my grief after my Dad died. I cried mile after mile until I came to discover a strength I never knew I had. In his death, he taught me resilience and fortitude. Time and time again, I have “found” him while running and I am left feeling reassured that I can/will get thru whatever obstacle I face in life. I have leaned into this gift over and over again.

On November 24th, I will be running the Philadelphia Marathon. I would like to use my training as an opportunity to fundraise for the American Lung Association and make a memorial donation in honor of my Dad. I would love your help! Founded 120 years ago by volunteers, the American Lung Association is now the leading organization working to improve lung health, prevent lung disease, and improve the quality of life for those with lung disease. Lung cancer is currently the leading cause of cancer deaths in both men and women in the U.S.! By the age of 35, I had lost both of my parents to lung cancer. No person should have to experience that.

My goal is to raise a dollar a day for every day I will have lived without my Dad by the time I run the streets of Philadelphia this fall. That translates to $7,313! A dollar a day doesn’t sound like much but when you tally it for 20 years, it quickly becomes substantial.

I will personally contribute a dollar for each mile I run leading up to the Philadelphia Marathon. I am aware that nothing I do can bring him back but I had to say goodbye too soon. If this donation can aid in cancer research or screening to give some other little girl more time with her Dad, then that would be really special. I hope you’ll consider sharing this and/or donating.