Sherlin's & Derrick’s Heartache: A Parent’s Grief

This is my little sister, Sherlin. She is 21 years old. Early Sunday morning Sherlin was having some pains, we figured it Braxton hicks but possibly real labor contractions. Sherlin and Derrick were eagerly awaiting the arrival of her first baby, our precious Mateo. They both were so ready to hold him in their arms, to bring him home, and to begin the beautiful journey of parenthood.

 But in a heartbreaking turn of events, Sherlin was rushed to the hospital for an emergency C-section due to sudden and severe preeclampsia. There was nothing we could do to stop it. She lost a significant amount of blood during surgery, requiring 15 blood transfusions to stabilize her. It was a terrifying and unimaginable moment for our family but especially for her and the father, Derrick.

 Then, our world shattered. We received the devastating news that baby Mateo didn’t make it. There are no words to describe the pain, the emptiness, and the heartbreak that Sherlin is feeling. She was so ready to love him, to nurture him, to be his mom.

 Now, as she recovers from surgery both physically and emotionally she and Derrick are facing an incredibly difficult time. Sherlin won’t be able to work for a while, and Derrick, who just started a new job, has had to take time off as they navigate this unimaginable loss.
 
A new expecting mother should be putting her finishing touches on the nest and a father should be pacing eagerly in anticipation. They should be debating middle names that fit just perfect for their new family. They did everything right, prenatal visits and vitamins. This should be the miracle God blessed upon them.

 Their greatest wish is to give baby Mateo the beautiful service he deserves, but they are struggling financially. If you find it in your heart to help in any way, whether by donating or simply sharing this message, we would be forever grateful.
 Please keep Sherlin, Derrick, and baby Mateo in your prayers. Thank you for your love and support.